Why My Cheating Wife Can’t Stop Cheating & Why I Cannot Live Without Her

February 7, 2024 Stan

True Life Story: Why My Cheating Wife Can’t Stop Cheating & Why I Cannot Live Without Her

Dear Lively Stones,

Wow, the rich also cry indeed. A wealthy business man that I know told me this story about his cheating wife. Please help him share for advice:

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I love my wife so much, I can do anything for her but she has betrayed me in the worst possible way ever. I am the first son of a family of eight. I started working early in life to support my parents and my siblings. That made me settle down quite late in life. I got married at age 43 and my wife was 23 when we got married. I actually met my wife through my youngest brother. I was visiting my baby brother back in school seven years ago, I met this very pretty damsel who was their course rep and she helped me call my brother out of class.

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Through my brother, I found out more about this Damsel and started dating right from her final year in school. This damsel ended up being my wife. She is very smart in Accounting and she became my company chief accountant when she finished NYSC. Over the seven years, she has been a great wife but I have not been a faithful husband. But the thing is, I told her when we were going to get married, that she may find me moving with other women by nature of my business but she should never worry as I will never marry someone else but her.

This was me just being very honest and upfront with her. By God’s grace, I have made money and many times, when a man is wealthy, women always flock around and I cannot claim to be a saint but I swear, I will never be a husband to more than one wife. My wife agreed but I never knew that hurt her privately. Around when she had our second child which was three years ago, I noticed when I touch her for s3x, she will be very disinterested. I bought her a car, I gave her alot of money and even bult a house for her parents in the village but she seemed a bit indifferent.

Eventually, I stopped paying attention cos I was travelling alot and my business was growing so much internationally. All that time that my wife and I were not really seeing each other, she turned to the arms of another man for comfort. That man, I just found out, happened to be my baby brother who just got married last year. It was his wife who discovered my wife and my brother having s3x. She raised alarm and a family meeting was called. My wife cried and told everyone that I abandoned her for over three years and my baby brother was the only one around, that mistake happened.

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The family is torn apart and I was so upset that I asked my wife to leave but my dad asked me not to divorce her because as Catholics, we don’t believe in divorce and traditionally, my brother is like a husband to my wife too plus, I was responsible for abandoning such a young vibrant wife to a young vibrant man who were both living in my house together for months without me being around. So my wife and my brother were told to do a three weeks penance in the church and they were both forgiven. But you see, our last child is about three years old, I asked for a DNA for this child cos from my wife’s confession, the affair with my brother first started three years ago.

The DNA revealed the boy is my son but you know, it may not be cos if my baby brother is the father…we share the same DNA….so maybe the test cannot differentiate. I listened to the elders and I want to rekindle the romance back in my marriage but I am still pained by my wife’s betrayal. I am now 50 years old and my wife is just 30 years old. I feel jealous now every time she goes out, I fear she may be seeing some young dude outside. So, I got her a PA that must follow her every movement when she goes out. I also installed CCTV camera everywhere in the house unknown to my wife.

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My wife is complaining that she is feeling imprisoned in the marriage and that our trust is broken, she suggested we look for a marriage therapist but I am too busy to commit to this right now. I understand how she feels but can you blame me for trying to keep an eye on her? She is young, pretty, sexy and hot. She is energetic and always wanting s3x and I cannot keep up with her. I realized she does not enjoy s3x with me, she complains that she does not experience orgasm. Another thing is, the age difference between us, my wife is listening to her friends who make her feel that she married too young and that that she did not experience life before she got married.

The other day, she asked me for permission to get a dildo which I blatantly refused. Why would a s3x toy replace me in my marriage. I am a proud Igbo man, that can never happen. She accused me of being unfair, that I have my side chicks. I got so upset that I told her to go to hell. And I travelled the next day. From the CCTV footage, I noticed my wife always on her phone once she gets back from work….and after a while, she will start touching herself while gazing into the phone.

At first, I thought she was masturbating but I realize she is talking to someone, so I found out how to clone her phone and found out that my wife is taking to strange men who she is having phone s3x with. She even had threesome with strangers online. My anger was boiling so much, I took a flight home immediately and I beat my wife so much. I have never raised my hand on a woman before. But I was so angry, I was ready to k#ll my wife. I was enraged that after beating her, I also r#ped her. I just was filled with rage that I wanted her to know she is mine and mine alone.

After this incident, her family decided that the marriage cannot be revived and they took their daughter home. I don’t know what came over me but soon as she left, things started happening to my business. Employees started stealing from me, I lost several huge businesses and I missed my wife so damn much. I want to go beg her to come back but there are many reasons I am scared that my wife will cheat again if opportunity comes. I don’t think I can stop her from cheating…but I cannot live without her.