I Am Only Human So Why Can’t I Be In Love With My Boss?

True Life Story: I Am Only Human So Why Can’t I Be In Love With My Boss?

Hi Lively Stones,

My name is Jeff (not my real name). I am in love with my boss. Crazy right? Well, I did not plan to fall in love with a woman in her forties….but things happened. I decided to write my story cos I read the story of the woman sleeping with her driver. That story made me chuckle…because it’s similar to mine in some ways but I am not blackmailing my boss. The way I see it…Love is love….even Drivers can fall in love. You cant have s3x with someone and not feel something.

So if you haven’t guessed yet, yes, I am a driver. I am not ashamed to say that I am a graduate of botany but after many years of looking for a job without luck, and then doing odd jobs like factory worker, I got a gig from a friend who said their company was looking for corporate drivers and the fee is 250k. That amount is what some tellers in the bank earn, I had to prepare for the job. It was a rigorous process and I came successful in the end.

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I was attached to this Director in the oil and gas company where I now work. It’s a well-paid job with benefits….I have looked at my prospects, and I could end up being a fleet manager here one day. So, this director that I am attached to is a beautiful woman in her forties but she does not look like it. She is a half-Nigerian, half-South African woman. She is single…Very smart and people fear and respect her in the company. I was her Driver for almost five months, and she was always professional with me but I admired her a lot.

Sometimes, we chatted about personal stuff while Driving her…she was impressed that I was a graduate but driving and having a goal of reaching the peak of my career. Then one day, we were gisting and I made a bold move to ask her why she is not married…she laughed and said she no longer believes in marriage…cos when she was younger, all the relationships she had did not work out now, she knows no guy wants her since she’s almost 45….so shes focused on her career.

When I asked her how she deals with loneliness and sexual urge, she laughed and said that is what her dildo and vibrator is doing for her….I laughed and told her I wish I had a girlfriend like her…she smiled and asked if I was flirting with her….I said maybe…she was quiet for the rest of the ride….when I dropped her off that day…she asked if I wanted to come inside….I said ok….she invited me over and I went to her apartment.

One thing led to another…we had s3x. I had a crush before…but now I am in love….she was very worried after….that I was an employee…and she was way older than me…she said it was inappropriate and said she would request for me to be transferred. I begged her not to transfer me….and I promised her it would never repeat itself. She agreed….but the sexual tension between us is so much…she started avoiding talking to me…it became strictly business …

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I could not take it anymore so I sent her a message that I love her ….she never replied but the next morning …she told me that she is giving me a last warning….that if I try to send any romantic message to her ….she would have me fired. That pissed me off….so I decided to leave her alone. But I have not stopped thinking about her. I catch her watching me sometimes….I know she wants me too….but I am afraid of making any further moves. She is scared of what people will think….that someone her age is with someone much younger….I am 29…..and she is a Director….our worlds are different.

To be honest…I have not given up hope….but I do not know how it will work between both of us….so when I read this Driver story, I almost felt tempted to seduce my boss…but I do not know how she will react….please help me with some advice…how do I get such a high-class lady to ever agree to give me a chance. I thought of quitting this job but that is impossible right now….I just got this job after suffering for almost seven years after graduating from school. I need this job….

So what do I do about my feelings for my boss…surely we cant both ignore that we have a connection….I know we are both dying to be with each other but the fear of the unknown….maybe she is afraid that I might want to take advantage of her…or is she just afraid of what the management would think about a director dating a driver? This is real life… I believe love can be with anyone no matter their social status….or am I living in a fantasy?

I am just trying to be patient…I am hoping one day…she will crack…and give me another green light….abi If you were in my shoes, what would you do about the situation…?

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