Have you ever wondered why you keep getting nailed even after you’ve taken every necessary step to have a peaceful home and maintain that desired relationship? Have you been jilted severally and you think there’s no solution?

Or you’ve been told that your marital/relationship problems are beyond physics? Have you lost hope in moving on after many heartbreaks? Or is your home on the verge of breaking and you want to save it? This post is for you!

Wait a while! What if you’ve been doing the right things wrongly or not doing it at all? Or the fact that you’ve over-loved someone makes him/her take you for granted?

Whichever way it seems, no qualms, there are solutions to all challenges in life, hence, keep calm, carefully read and follow the three major pillars; yea, three, not seven or ten solutions that some people would claim.

Below are the three major pillars that hold relationships stronger:

1. Understanding:

MY WEDDING NIGHT

It was my wedding night. I was so tired, I needed a bath and a rest. We had danced so much my back was aching.

My husband was beginning to have funny ideas. He was beaming like a new born baby.

Well, I wouldn't blame him; any man in his position would not joke with this night because I was a warrior during our courtship".

No... no hugging, no pecking, no holding, no touching, no tapping current, no weather for two, Sexual purity till marriage was top on my list.

The Knock came. I was thinking, half past eleven (11:30pm). Is that room service, I wondered. Then, with eyes popping. I heard my mother in-law's iron like voice: "Tise, Micheal, open the door". Micheal jumped up from the bed, rushed to the door and opened it for his mum. My Mother in-law walked in, sat down majestically and asked us to sit down too.

"Tise, I don't know if anyone ever told you? There is a curse on my husband's family line.

The men in their family don't prosper, their wives are the ones who work, and provide for the families.

This is because, according to the story that I was told, one of their forefathers killed the only son of a great herbalist and the herbalist placed a curse on every son in their lineage, that their hands will never produce nor bring forth anything good also, their sons must always lose a son amongst their children"

I watched in amazement as my mother in-law kept telling the story. Then, she concluded by saying: "In essence, I have just come to let you know that your marriage is not a land of fun but of war"

Why? Why didn't she tell me this before now?

Well, in order not to waste her time, I also gave her my history. I said,

"Mum, I am sorry, I also did not tell you this before now. I came from a family that fights for those we love. My Father (Jesus Christ) actually died while trying to save His people. My family line does not operate under curses because we are operating under a covenant of blessings - John 1:12-13. Therefore, anyone who is fortunate to marry any one in my family becomes automatically BLESSED! So mum, for my sake, your son can not operate under those curses again".

My mother in-law was shocked, to say the least, as I could tell what she was thinking. Then, it made sense to me.

My Sisters in-law always had this gloomy look on their faces and the two of them actually lost their sons.

"Mum, you need to go and rest. My husband and I need to produce two sons this night because in my family line we conceive immediately our husbands meet Us", I concluded.

My mother in-law stood up with caution and silently walked out.

At that moment, all the tiredness vanished as I took Michael's hands and looked him straight in the eye.

"Listen, I don't care what you or your ancestors have done, but for my sake, you will prosper with these hands", I said.

Listen, Paul and some criminals were on a ship and there was a shipwreck.

The soldiers wanted to kill all the criminals to prevent them from escaping, but the Army Officer stopped them for the sake of saving Apostle Paul.

Michael, for Paul's sake, the lives of other criminals were preserved. "So Sweetheart, because you are married to me, because we are in the same ship, yes, this relationship called marriage, for my sake, you cannot be punished for your ancestors' Sins", I assured him.

That became my prayer point to God from that day forward. I kept praying to God to save my husband, my sons for my sake.

To the Glory of God, I have 4 sons none of them died. Now, they have sons and daughters of their own.

For my sake, my husband's destiny changed for the best.

You see, women are always great assets to change powers; not assets for sex only.
It doesn't matter what challenge that man of yours is facing at this point in time with you on his side praying, ancestral curses will fly out of his life.

Women are destined for that; good women are a great blessing to the men.

When a good woman comes into a man's life, many good doors of success, prosperity, joy, love, etc open & ancestral curses break down & disappear.

Good women diffuse ancestral curses like a diffused bomb.

Woman, always pray for your man (husband) friend; your prayer works for him; your prayer can save his life from shame ...
Your prayer can set him free from bondage.

Share this post with your friends and family and save a soul.
God bless you 🙏

*WHAT ARE THE UNSPOKEN TRUTH ABOUT PEOPLE?*

1. Everyone has insecurities. No matter how confident someone may appear on the surface, everyone has doubts and fears that they keep hidden away.

2. We all have secrets. Whether it's a secret hobby or a past mistake, everyone has something they don't want others to know about.

3. Everyone has experienced heartbreak. Whether it's a romantic relationship or a friendship that ended, we've all felt the pain of losing someone we care about.

4. We all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect, and everyone has made a decision they regret at some point in their life.

5. Everyone has their own struggles. Whether it's a personal issue or something going on in their family, everyone is dealing with something behind the scenes.

6. We all want to feel loved and accepted. No matter how independent or self-assured someone may seem, everyone craves love and acceptance from others.

7. We all have strengths and weaknesses. Nobody is good at everything, and everyone has areas where they excel and areas where they struggle.

8. We all have our own beliefs and values. Whether it's religious or political beliefs, everyone has a set of principles that guides their decisions.

9. Everyone has their own perspective. Each person sees the world through their own unique lens, and their experiences and beliefs shape their views.

10. We all have a story to tell. No matter who you are, you have a life story full of triumphs and hardships that has shaped you into the person you are today.