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You will meet difficult people everywhere you go in life. You'll meet such people in your:

- neighbourhood

- at work.

- at school.

- in the family.

- In chat groups

- in Political groups

- in religious or church groups

- associations etc.

It doesn’t matter the number of good things you do, you will still meet difficult people in life.

(1) They will not appreciate anything good from you and always indulge in mocking you 

(2) They will always criticize you back and forth 

(3) They will always create stumbling blocks to discourage or deter you.

(4) They will love to fight you at any slight opportunity 

(5) They will always speak negative things about you.

(6) They will might even fabricate lies about you.

(7) They will like to steal your joy and bring you down to zero level...

(8) They will threaten you even to the point of depression or death...

9. Just remember that most great men of vission came across difficult people in their journey of life.

*Characteristics of Difficult People*

1) Some are sadistic agents of the devil, always seeking to stop any good cause by all means 

2) Some are immature people who need your help to grow up

3) Some are wounded and battered people are seeking for revenge.

4) Some are jealous people seeking for relevance.

5) Some are proud people who never want to see anyone above them.

6) Some are failures in life looking for people to perish with.

 

*What Does the Presence of Difficult People Mean?

1) It's a sign of a great destiny upon your life and ministry...

2) It's a sign of leadership qualities in you...

3) It's a sign of a threat to their camps...

4) It means you have great potentials...

5) It means you are an overcomer

6) It means you are on the right track to fulfilling your destiny...

 *Way forward to dealing with difficult people:

1. Learn never to give up on your dream.

2. Pursue your dream to reach your destiny successfully.

3. Learn to forgive and forget your haters. Just move on!

4. If you trust your mission, learn to yield yourself only to God Almighty for guidance.

5.Continue praying, fasting, and forgiving those who hurt you.

6.Don't forget to pray for your enemies 

7. Life is a battle ground, fight to win! & Aim to finish well...

May the Almighty God continue to guide and bless us all, Amen 🙏

 

#mk#Blessings

 
Posted : 03/06/2022 10:24 pm
Stan
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🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀.

*𝗡𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐡 𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐡. 𝗧𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐟*

𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗚𝗜𝗩𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗦𝗦.
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*𝗘𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, 𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.*

🍀🍀🍀𝗧𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 "𝗨𝗡𝗜𝗧𝗬."
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*𝗠𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬.*
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𝟏. *𝗔𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝗜 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗦𝐚𝐲' 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗧𝐚𝐥𝐤'.* 🗣
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𝟐. *𝗔𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝗜 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗘𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲' 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗖𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞' 👯*
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𝟑. *𝗔𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝗜 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗦𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞' 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 '𝗟𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡'_👨‍❤️‍👨*
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*𝗧𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝗕𝗘𝗔𝗨𝗧𝗬 𝐨𝐟 𝗛𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝗥𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝗪𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫*

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*𝗤𝗨𝗢𝗧𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗘𝗘𝗞*🍀🍀

*𝗧𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐳𝐨𝐫 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐝𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐩 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧'𝐭 𝐜𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐞; 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐱𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧'𝐭 𝐜𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐢𝐫.*
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𝗠𝗢𝗥𝗔𝗟:🍀🍀🍀
*𝗘𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐬/𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. 𝗡𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐞𝐬*
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*To whom it may concern* 🥱🤔😔

 
Posted : 08/06/2022 3:45 pm
Stan
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Posts: 125
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1, Don't allow people who don't have confidence in themselves to infect you with that virus called FEAR.🤞🏽💯

2, Grow Stronger From The Pain Don't Let It Destroy You 🤞🏽❤️

3, Stop Jumping When Someone Needs U. It's Never The Same Energy When U Need
Them.,,,,,,,,,

4, Maturity Is When You're Supposed To Get Mad, But U Choose To Understand❤️,,,

5, Stop Holding On To People Who Don't Give A Damn about You, It's Okay To Be Alone,,,,

6, Keep Your Relationship Private But When Someone Asked Don't Deny It 🤞🏽

 
Posted : 25/06/2022 9:13 pm
Stan
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```🍀 Read with patience 🍀

USED 🚗 vs. LOVED❤

 

🌹While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

🌹In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times;❤

🌹not realizing he was using a wrench.❤

🌹At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.❤

🌹When the child saw his father...❤

🌹with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'❤

🌹The man was so hurt and speechless;❤

🌹he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.❤

🌹Devastated by his own actions.....❤

🌹sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;❤

🌹The child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.❤❤

🌹The next day that man committed suicide. . .❤

🌹Anger and Love have no limits;❤

🌹Choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life....❤❤.

🌹Things are to be used and people are to be loved.❤

🌹But the problem in today's world is that,❤

🌹People are used and things are loved.❤

🌹Let's always be careful to keep this thought in mind:❤

🌹Things are to be used,but People are to be loved.❤

🌹Watch your thoughts; they become words.❤

🌹Watch your words; they become actions.❤

🌹Watch your actions; they become habits.❤

🌹Watch your habits they become character;❤

🌹Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.❤

🌹I'm glad a friend shared this post with me as a reminder.❤

🌹God bless you.❤

🌹If you don't share this post nothing bad will happen;

🌹If you do, you might change someones' life.❤

🌹Do u know the relationship between your two eyes?❤

🌹They blink together, move together, cry together, see things together & sleep together.❤

🌹Even though they never see each other.

🌹Friendship should be just like that!

🌹Life is vanity without FRIENDS.

🌹Who is your best friend? Share this post with all your friends. Even me, if I am one of them. See how many u get back. If u get more than 7, then u are really a lovable person!🌺🐾```have a lovely day.

 
Posted : 14/07/2022 10:12 am
Mary
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*When a relationship is coming to an end, this are signs and symptoms🤔🤔🤔🤔*

1. Deafness: I didn't hear it ring.*

2. Blindness: I didn't see your missed calls.*

3. Formation of busy: when you called, I was frying stone 😂😂😂*

4. Nowhere to be found: Can we meet? Oh I'll be going to the moon with my mom 😂😂*

5. Online but not chatting: I just put on my data to check if the sun is shining on*

 
Posted : 20/07/2022 2:48 pm
Mary
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𝐅𝐎𝐎𝐃 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇𝐓

People called him mad-man
but I was surprised when he moved close to me,
He said, “can I ask you a very important question?”

I nodded, in acceptance,
and then,
he asked, “am I a mad man?”

The obvious answer, from a sane person, will be, "no",
and that was what I said.
“Thank you!”, he replied;

then he said,

“just because I don’t see things the way other people do, does that make me a mad man?”

"No", I answered again.

He bent down, wrote “W”,
and asked me what he wrote.
At this point, I was already feeling ashamed,
getting involved in a lengthy conversation with him.

In a hurry to leave, I said “w”,
but I was amazed when he replied to my answer,
“You only see 'W',
because of the angle at which you are looking at it.

If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”;
If u look from the right side, it is “3”,
and looking at it from the left side, it is “E”.

The fact that I don’t see things at the perspective that everyone is seeing it doesn’t make me a mad man, he said. Then he left.

I pondered for so long about this and its application to life.

Because We act, and relate to people, based on the perspective at which we are looking at their situation.

Have you taken your time to look at other possible perspectives?

I then decided that,
before I get angry with, or act against, or judge anyone that has done something unfavourable to me,
I will view it in at least three possible perspectives;
1. My own perspective,
2. His own perspective and
3. Others perspective'.

So, before you judge people, before you rage your anger on them, take a little time to view their angle or perspective, and, if you still cannot see a reasonable reason, then you may act REASONABLY .

*Please Kindly Share With Your Love Ones *

 
Posted : 23/07/2022 7:19 pm
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*WHO IS A DIFFICULT PERSON?*

*1*. If you think that everyone is wrong and you are always right. You are making yourself a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*2*. When you have something wrong to say about every good person or thing, You just might be a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*3*. If you have gradually become too hard to please. Beware, You are becoming a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*4*. When You argue about everything, even when there is no need for it. Be careful, you are becoming a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*5*. You know the reason why people do what they do...You pride yourself as a mind reader...Are you *GOD? Of course, you are not; You are just a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*6*. If everyone around you walks on egg shells. They'd rather not talk to you....You are a *DIFFICULT PERSON*.

*7*. If you have a correction for everyone but none for yourself....YOU ARE A *DIFFICULT PERSON*

*8*. If You never say I AM SORRY; or must be cajoled into saying it... You are a *DIFFICULT PERSON*

*9*. If You are too adamant about forgiving others... You are a *DIFFICULT PERSON* .

*10*. Dearly Beloved, a *DIFFICULT PERSON* has to be very Careful; otherwise at some point in your Journey, you might discover you are walking Alone.

*DON'T BE A DIFFICULT PERSON*

Think About this and change!

 
Posted : 10/04/2023 9:08 pm

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