Finally Got Engaged To My Best Friend But I Am Having Doubts

True Life Story: Finally Got Engaged To My Best Friend But I Am Having Doubts

Hello Lively Stones,

What do ya’all think about this? I met Mark (not real name) at an a professional event six years ago. Mark is not one to easily ignore. He was a bit of the talkative type and very friendly. We got talking and after the event, we kept in touch. One thing I noticed about Mark was that apart from being a talkative, he seemed a but feminine in his mannerisms. I wont lie, I suspected he might be gay cos he was just too girly for a man for me.

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And that is why he is also too friendly…always talking to people around him. Just give him one minute, he will start being friends with you …..and most of his friends are girls. When we kept in touch, he told me he had just divorced his wife. They found out that they were not happy together. The wife wanted to move around a certain class and live a flashy lifestyle…Mark is an average guy….not poor but not too rich. The ex-wife eventually had an affair with a rich dude and they divorced after two years of marriage.

As just friends with Mark, he was my gist partner. I loved listening to his gist. The guy was too nice for his own good…ladies always wanted to sleep with him and since he was single, he was just having a ball….later he would come and gossip about those ladies, even some married ladies to me. I think most ladies find him easy to talk to. And before long, they want to sleep with him…some out of curiosity. Wanting to know if he is gay…if he can f*ck a woman. And Mark always proved them wrong.

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As his friend, I did not mind or judge his lifestyle. However, two years ago, he told me, he was ready to settle down. He met this girl in church. The girl seemed nice. He was all over her. He kept gisting me about her. Because he liked her alot, he did not try to sleep with her. He even introduced her to me…and I was happy for him. Me and Mark are like really good besties…I can even call him hey girl…he calls me hey boo.

Mark and his girlfriend got engaged last year and the wedding was supposed to be in November of last year. But unfortunately, the relationship came to an end just six weeks to the wedding. Mark walked into his girlfriend having s3x with her best friend. Long story short, his wife to be was a lesbian. She confessed that she wanted to marry Mark just to cover up cos she though Mark was gay…and so she can be doing her thing while allowing Mark to do his thing.

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Mark was so disappointed….very heart broken for weeks. I felt bad for him …I tried to console him and one thing led to another, we slept together. It was not a lie….the guy is a legend in the other room. Since then, our relationship has progressed from best friends to lovers. As things are getting more serious, I am afraid. Will this work? Mark’s personality is truly feminine. I like my men masculine…I hope I do not break his heart like the other ladies?

I never want to see Mark like a gay but he does act like one. I have asked him why he acts girlish…he says that is how he is…and he sees nothing wrong with that. As his friend, I never judged him for his behavior but as a lover….I feel awkward when we are outside and people are looking at him like a weirdo. You know, he does not dress like a female but talks and acts like one. I love him as a friend, but the relationship would have been perfect if not for his personality.

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On valentine night, Mark proposed to me in a room filled with over 500 roses. It was the most romantic thing anyone has done for me. I said yes…I love Mark but I am having doubts…the guy is tired of people doubting him and here I am….. even though I have not had any successful relationship myself….is this a sign that we are meant for each other? am I having these doubts because of what people will say of Mark if we marry or do I suspect deep down that he could be gay?

Please what should I do? Do you know any guy that acts feminine that is not gay? Is this normal for some men? Should I be worried or just relax?  Please advise me?

Anonymous

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