28 Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie Styles of 2023 – WWD
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Whether you’re looking for a romantic gift to surprise your partner with or something sexy to treat yourself to, there’s no better time than Valentine’s Day to shop for romantic gifts like the best Valentine’s Day lingerie. From silk pajamas to lace bralettes and corseted ensembles, there’s a lingerie look out there for everyone to feel their sexiest in. And whether you’re in a relationship or not, who doesn’t want that?
If it’s been a while since you’ve bought lingerie (hey, no shame!), or you’re looking to spice things up with something different, there are plenty of new lingerie styles to try in 2023. “A major lingerie trend I’m seeing is fancier loungewear,” says Cora Harrington, lingerie expert and founder of The Lingerie Addict. “Each year, people are investing in nicer loungewear. Companies are meeting this need with more transitional pieces that can double as outerwear and loungewear with fun prints and interesting colors.”
Harrington also notes that more traditional lace and floral lingerie is getting an update, too. “I’m seeing brands invest in pieces with highly tactile and unusual embroideries — snakes instead of flowers, for example.”
Valentine’s Day lingerie can span from classic all-black sets to pieces covered in hearts and lace — finding the right look for you depends on your definition of sexy. Maybe you want to go for something simple that you can wear year-round, or perhaps you want something that feels more Cupid-inspired. Either way, there are some important design elements to look for while shopping to get the look right. “Keeping in mind that some people might want to feel cheesy or costumey, I think fabric choices and finishes do a lot to make even those more inexpensive pieces look luxe — for example, velvet or mesh instead of shiny satin,” Harrington says. “I also love embroidery details as a way to elevate an item.”
With so many lingerie styles to choose from, the most important thing to remember is to go for something you feel secure in. “What matters most is feeling confident,” Harrington says. “For example, I love the hi-cut leg, but others may find it uncomfortable. Instead, I encourage people to splurge on something special within their budget — to look for that dream piece that pushes the envelope but still makes them feel their best. Whether that’s a T-shirt bra, a nightgown, a corset, or a luxurious bathrobe, what matters at the end of the day is that you love it,” she adds.
Below, shop the 28 sexiest Valentine’s Day lingerie pieces to heat up your holiday (and beyond).
Top Valentine’s Day Lingerie 2023
Dita Von Teese Rosabelle Dark Cherry Bra and Rosabelle Suspender
Best Sexy Valentine’s Day Lingerie Set
- Size range: 32B-38G
- Material: 71% Polyester, 24% Polyamide, 5% Elastane
- Care instructions: Hang wash, line dry
Lingerie Addict founder Cora Harrington counts Dita Von Teese as one of her favorite lingerie brands, noting its Rosabelle range “has perfect Valentine’s Day vibes.” This sexy vintage-inspired set features romantic rose embroidery and intricate lace that’s on-theme for Valentine’s Day but could also work year-round. The high-waisted suspender accentuates your waist, while the garters complete the look.
- Size range: XS-XL
- Material: 73% Polyester, 19% Polyamide, 8% Elastane
- Care instructions: Hang wash, line dry
Thistle & Spire Medusa Bodysuit
Most Unique Valentine’s Day Bodysuit
- Size range: XS-3XL
- Material: Mesh and silk
- Care instructions: Handwash and hang dry
As Harrington mentioned, unexpected embroideries and details like snakes give traditional floral lingerie a break. She recommends Thistle & Spire’s crimson red bodysuit adorned with two snakes as a Valentine’s Day pick that feels more daring. Available in sizes XS to 3X, this sheer halter neck style bodysuit is ultra-flattering and sexy.
What reviewers say: “Honestly the coolest, sexiest piece of lingerie I’ve ever owned. I own two other Thistle and Spire pieces, and this is by far my fav. I am 169 lbs, 5 foot 5 and a 34G, and I bought an XL. I think I could size down, but I’m ultimately glad I didn’t. I’m pretty pale, and the mesh is the colour of the skin on my body that actually sees the light.”
Cuup The Balconette Satin Bra
- Size range: 30A-44H
- Colorways: Garnet Shine, Crystal Shine, Black Shine, Rose Shine, Vine Shine
- Material: 84% Polyamide 16% Lycra
- Care instructions: Machine wash delicate or hand wash cold. Do not bleach. Lay flat dry.
Minimalist-dressers rejoice! Cuup’s Satin Bra is for you. It’s simple, chic, and elegant and makes you feel put together whether you pair it with the matching thong or not. It’s lightly lined with mesh for immense breathability and has an underwire that is flexible and doesn’t poke or dig. Garnet Shine is our color choice because it’s suiting for Valentine’s Day yet timeless.
What reviewers say: “Okay I bought this bra set because I thought it was stunning and I heard good reviews of CUUP but I’m so impressed by the fit. As a smaller petite frame with a larger chest it’s pretty hard to find a good bra that’s supportive and cute but 10/10. Also the fit is perfect, runs true to size.”
Skims Fits Everybody Micro Thong
Best Affordable Sexy Underwear
- Size range: XXS-4X
- Material: 76% Polyamide / 24% Elastane
- Care instructions: Machine Wash Cold, Non Chlorine Bleach, Cool Iron, Do Not Dry Clean
Skims’ ultra-micro thong is a contender for the world’s tiniest panty, perfect for spicing things up a notch. The barely-there style is made of ultra-soft nylon and elastic for a comfortable fit that you’ll undoubtedly feel sexy in. Available in sizes XXS to 4X, this panty is designed to flatter every body type.
Kilo Brava Floral Print Wide Leg Pajama Set
Best Valentine’s Day Loungewear Set
- Size range: S-3XL
- Material: 100% rayon
- Care instructions: Machine wash, line dry
If the loungewear lingerie trend is more your speed, Harrington suggests opting for this silky luxe set from Kilo Brava. “I’m obsessed with Kilo Brava’s Print pajamas,” she says. “I bought these for myself as a holiday gift, and they’re the definition of accessible luxury.”
Savage x Fenty Romantic Tulle Maxi Slip
Best Valentine’s Day Slip
- Size range: XS-3X
- Material: 100% Polyester; Lace: 93% Polyamide, 7% Elastane
- Care instructions: Hand wash cold, line dry. Do not wring or tumble dry.
- Special features: Available in two fit types — missy and curvy
Leave it to Rihanna to master the art of dramatic lingerie that’s both sexy and a little bit extra. This Savage x Fenty sheer maxi slip is perfect for styling over your favorite bra and underwear set — or for wearing with nothing underneath. The bodice features a floral lace design, while the sheer tulle skirt features matching lace trim to pull the look together.
What reviewers say: “I purchased this as a gift for my wife. It fits perfectly and looks amazing. We love it.”
La Perla Balconette Bra
Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie Bra for Small Busts
- Size range: 36C-38B
- Material: Lace
- Care instructions: Hand wash only
If you want something more luxe, opt for a color and style you’ll wear well beyond Valentine’s Day. This classic balconette bra by La Perla is timeless and sexy enough to turn up the heat for any special V-Day plans. The see-through lace design features an underwire for added support and a low neckline to show off your cleavage. This style is ideal for small and large bust sizes, enhancing the body’s natural curves with a simple design.
La Perla Brigitta Brazilian Brief
- Size range: S-L
- Material: 81% nylon, 19% elastane
- Care instructions: Machine wash, dry flat
There’s nothing more romantic than gifting a simple yet luxurious pair of panties — especially when they’re from La Perla and red. These briefs offer a figure-flattering Brazilian cut that hits the leg at a high point for a sexy and comfortable fit. This brief is the perfect low-cut alternative if you’re not a fan of high-waisted underwear.
LPA Posie Pleated Corset
Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie-Inspired Top
- Size range: XXS-XL
- Material: 53% viscose, 44% rayon, 3% elastane
- Care instructions: Machine wash
If you’re looking for a lingerie-inspired top for a Valentine’s Day date night, look no further than LPA’s Posie Pleated Corset. The bustier features an underwire for more support, a boned bodice that flatters any figure, and a side tie detail adding to the flirty, feminine aesthetic. It’s the perfect piece that’s on theme without going too overboard.
B.Tempt’d By Wacoal Ciao Bella Thong Bodysuit
Best Plunging Lace Bodysuit
- Size range: S-XL
- Material: 68% Nylon, 15% Spandex, 13% Rayon, 4% Metallic
- Care instructions: Hand wash only
A plunging V-neck bodysuit is a timelessly sexy lingerie staple to invest in. This B.Tempt’d by Wacoal style is ultra-flattering on every body type with its high-cut leg, sexy corded lace front, and low plunge back. Unlike many bodysuits, this one offers elastic at the neckline for an easy fit. You can also layer it under a blazer for a sexy night-out look.
Cosabella Ultra Curvy Sweetie Bralette
Best Wireless Bralette
- Size range: XS-M
- Colorways: Available in over 45 colors
- Material: 93% polyamide, 7% elastane
Anyone looking for the utmost comfort will love Cosabella’s Italian floral lace bralette. Crafted with soft, stretchy, and wireless construction, the Ultra Curvy Sweetie bra style features supportive mesh and wide straps ideal for those with fuller bust sizes. However, this bralette style is also offered in regular, petite, and extended sizes, so there’s something for every bust and band size here.
Commando Up All Night Stay-Up Stockings
Best Thigh-High Lingerie Stockings
- Size range: S-L
- Material: Nylon/spandex
- Care instructions: Hand wash cold, line dry
An instant way to take any lingerie look to the next level? Add a pair of thigh-high stockings into the mix. These Commando stockings are ideal if you don’t have or want to wear a garter belt, as they stay up on their own thanks to no-slip silicone bands underneath the lace trim at the top.
What reviewers say: “Makes you feel sexy and the quality is amazing. Well worth the purchase. Most thigh highs are like tight on the band around the thighs but lemme tell u about my thick thighs, and it fits perfectly. Don’t be scared if you have thick/even thin thighs, it will fit!”
Adore Me Corset and Thong Set
Best Vintage-Inspired Corset for Valentine’s Day
- Size range: 0X-4X
- Colorways: Black, white
- Material: Polyester
There’s no denying corsets are having a moment right now, and what better time to embrace the look than with some sexy Valentine’s Day lingerie? Adore Me‘s red and black vintage-inspired boned corset features a sweetheart neckline and front and back lace-up closures for a flattering fit on all bust sizes. It comes with matching black lace panties to attach to the corset’s garter to really complete the ensemble.
What reviewers say: “I absolutely LOVE this little number & so does my Hubby!! It is so comfortable but at the same time sooooo Sexy!!”
In Bloom Felicity Lace Trim Satin Chemise
Best Pink Valentine’s Day Lingerie
- Size range: XS-XL
- Material: 100% polyester with 90% nylon, 10% spandex lace
- Care instructions: Machine wash, tumble dry
It doesn’t get more “Valentine’s Day” than two different pink-colored lace — but In Bloom’s chemise nightie featuring the combo is versatile enough to wear well beyond February 14th. The sultry, lace-trimmed slip features a V-neckline and adjustable straps to customize your fit.
What reviewers say: “Very easy and smooth, delivery was very quick!”
Hanky Panky Lace Garter Belt
Best Garter Belt for Valentine’s Day
- Size range: S-L
- Material: Nylon
- Care instructions: Hand wash
Make any bra and panty set that much sexier by adding on a lace garter belt. This classic black lace style by Hanky Panky features little black bows and a sheer floral design for a more romantic look. It has four adjustable attachments to hook onto your thigh-high tights.
What reviewers say: “This garter is a great basic with a perfect fit. Comforts to your body, no flaws. TTS with adjustable hook strap.”
Third Love Lace Contour Plunge Bra
Best Valentine’s Day Bra for Large Busts
- Size range: 32AA-44H
- Colorways: Black, Soft Pink, Blue Ice, Very Berry, Ocean, Eucalyptus
- Material: Nylon/Spandex
- Care instructions: Handwash, lay flat to dry
Wearing a sexy bra doesn’t have to come at the expense of your comfort — at least not with this Contour Plunge Bra that’s ideal for those with large busts. With scratch-free lace, plunge memory foam cups, flexible underwire, and removable inserts for customizable cleavage, this bra not only looks chic and sexy, it feels good too.
Victoria’s Secret Satin Lace-Back Cami Set
Best Camisole and Shorts Lingerie Set
- Size range: XS-XXL
- Colorways: Fuschia Frenzy, Lipstick Red, Black, Night Ocean
- Material: Satin
- Care instructions: Machine wash
For those who prefer a two-piece set over a chemise or nightgown, this silky matching loungewear combo is a must. Made of 100% pure satin for a luxuriously smooth feel, Victoria’s Secret’s cami and shorts are both comfortable and sexy. It features adjustable straps with rhinestone embellishments and a split back with button closure and lace detail. Whether you’re looking for something to lounge or sleep in, this set will become a new favorite.
What reviewers say: “I think this cami set is more pretty in the person. It’s gorgeous and the back is sexy and stunning. My boyfriend loves it.”
Bare Necessities Va Bien Bustier
Best Valentine’s Day Bridal Lingerie
- Size range: 32A-38E
- Colorways: Black, nude, white
- Material: 100% Nylon
- Care instructions: Hand wash, line dry
If you want to enhance your cleavage, look no further than Bare Necessities’ plunging push-up bustier. The deep plunging bodice features built-in graduated push-up pads to enhance your bust naturally. Pair it with thigh highs and a thong to complete the look. Plus, if you’re a bride-to-be, the white hue option is a great way to get into the marital spirit.
Eberjey Naya Modal Romper
Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie Romper
- Size range: XS-XL
- Colorways: Mulberry, Rose Cloud
- Material: 95% TENCEL Modal, 5% Spandex; Lace: 91% Nylon, 9% Spandex
- Care instructions: Hand wash cold
Lounging has never looked so sexy and felt so comfortable as when done in Eberjey’s Naya Modal Romper. It features a high-cut silhouette with elegant lace trim details at the hems, adjustable shoulder straps, and an elasticized waist for a cinched look. Additionally, it consists of the brand’s beloved temperature-regulating TENCEL Modal fabric, which will make you never want to take the romper off.
Free People Charlotte Joey Bra
Best Wireless Valentine’s Day Lingerie Bra
- Size range: S-XL
- Material: 100% Nylon Mesh
- Care instructions: Hand wash cold
This sheer bra from Free People looks more luxurious than its price tag. The floral design with ruched detailing feels modern with a little bit of retro flair that feels effortlessly sexy. It’s super lightweight, hardware-free, and complete with adjustable straps for a more secure fit.
Calvin Klein Micro with Lace Band Thong
Most Comfortable Valentine’s Day Lingerie
- Size range: XS-XL
- Colorways: Strawberry, Bear, Beachwood, Black, Mellow Orange, Tapestry Teal, Sandstone, Praire Pink
- Material: 85% Polyamide, 15% Elastane
- Care instructions: Machine wash
Since 1982, Calvin Klein’s underwear has taken the world by storm as the ultimate symbol of sensuality and courage. While its classic cotton collection is most notable and stylish with its logo-induced band, this lace thong is equally as coveted. It’s made of ultra-sleek microfiber for a smooth finish and exceptional performance and features an ombre design with curved, scalloped edges and an intricate lace waistband that’s lightweight and pairs well under any type of bottom.
What reviewers say: “Super soft, great quality and better fit. Will buy more of these.”
Else Petunia Strapless Underwire Corset Bra
Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie Strapless Bra
- Size range: 34A-36D
- Colorways: Black, Ivory, Lilac, Teal, Pink, Yellow
- Material: 88% polyamide, 12% elastane
- Care instructions: Hand wash or dry clean
Nothing says sexy elegance more than this strapless lace bra from Else. It’s made from stretch mesh and lace and features scalloped edges that look romantic in the bedroom or out of the house when peeking out from beneath a top. The underwired cups offer support, and the elasticated underband ensures a comfortable fit.
What reviewers say: “Beautiful and well made! I wear a size D and this fits like a glove. there is a wonderful sense of freedom wearing this piece.”
Bluebella Nova Underwire Open Bra
Best Open Bra for Valentine’s Day
- Size range: 30C-38E
- Material: 58% polyester, 28% polyamide,14% elastane
- Care instructions: Hand wash, dry flat
If you want to really go for a va-va-voom look, an open-cup bra is provocative without feeling too costumey or over the top. This floral lace style from Bluebella features rows of flattering straps to keep you in place with minimal coverage. Pair it with a sexy open thong to take the look up to another level.
What reviewers say: “This piece is beautiful and elegant. Gives the illusion of being semi braless but yet it gives support. True to size for me.”
Avidlove Women Lingerie Lace Chemise Sleepwear Babydoll Teddy Lingerie
Best Valentine’s Day Babydoll Dress
- Size range: XS-3XL
- Material: 100% polyester
Don’t sleep on Amazon’s lingerie selection — its lingerie offerings are just as good as its fashion dresses and hair dryers. If you’re looking for something that isn’t skin-tight, go for a billowy babydoll that’s equal parts comfy and sexy. This breathable number from Avidlove is a best-seller from the retailer and features lace details, an open back, and adjustable satin straps.
Kiki de Montparnasse Silk Robe
Best Silk Robe for Valentine’s Day
- Size range: XS-L
- Material: 100% Silk
- Care instructions: Dry clean only
Top off whatever lingerie look you commit to with this equally sexy silk robe by Kiki de Montparnasse. Made of 100% silk, this airy, lightweight design features billowy kimono-inspired sleeves for added flair and open underarms for more breathability.
Agent Provocateur Nyxie Satin and Lace-Trimmed Tulle Thong
- Size range: 1-6
- Material: 100% polyamide; trim: 71% polyamide, 29% elastane
- Care instructions: Hand wash
Agent Provocateur is the epitome of luxury lingerie. It’s been a celebrity favorite for years now and has some of the prettiest pieces of lingerie on the market. The Nyxie Satin and Lace-Trimmed Tulle Thong is the ultimate Valentine’s Day gift for her because it’s sexy, unique, and well-made. It has a Trixie-style cut, silk-bound keyhole at the front, sheer tulle decorated with lace, and plaited elastics at the hips to ensure the thong sits and stays properly.
Ekouaer Women’s Feather Trim Silk Satin Pajama Set
Most Cute Valentine’s Day Lingerie
- Size range: S-3XL
- Colorways: Available in 10 different colors
- Material: 95% Polyester, 5% Spandex
- Care instructions: Machine wash
A feather-trimmed pajama set is equally as necessary for Valentine’s Day as a thong and a bra. This one by Ekouaer features shorts and a buttoned-long sleeve top and is offered in 10 different colors. Each has a smooth, skin-friendly, soft, breathable, and lightweight feel. The best part? On days when the feathers seem too much, you can easily remove them and store them away for future use.
What reviewers say: “Feels luxurious and so light. Fit is fine with room around the shoulders so no binding which I was worried about. To be fair, it was nice quality and didn’t shed. Love these pjs and looking forward to slightly warmer weather.”
The Differently Types of Lingerie for Valentine’s Day
Lingerie compromises everything from bra and panty sets to teddies, babydolls, chemises, and beyond. While the different types of lingerie vary, there are a few Valentine’s Day staples everyone needs in their wardrobe.
- Lingerie Bra and Underwear Set: Trust us, there’s no better feeling than putting on a matching pair of panties and bra. It instantly makes us feel more put together. That’s why we recommend you seek out the best bra and underwear sets on the market this Valentine’s Day. Thanks to designers like Savage x Fenty, Cuup, Dita Von Teese, and many more, we can streamline our drawers and look good — while doing so. From minimal bralettes and cheeky briefs to full-support bras and micro thongs, these sets are designed to celebrate your unique style and body type while making you feel sexy and empowered.
- Lingerie Corsets There’s no doubt that corsets have been having their moment. Thanks to regencycore and the return of Y2k corset tops with signature details such as boning at the waist, bustier necklines, lace fabric, and hook-and-eye closures. They are a must for Valentine’s Day and beyond because they’re versatile to wear in and out of the house. Additionally, they make a great alternative to traditional skimpy lingerie that exposes more skin. So, whether you’re looking to buy lingerie for yourself or someone else, you can’t go wrong with a sexy corset.
- Lingerie Camis: Camisoles, traditionally known as undershirts, have been taken to the next level with flirtatious details such as low V-necks and lace embellishments. What makes them so great is that the lingerie-inspired pajama piece comes in many different iterations for different usages. The delicate and flowy tank tops are perfect for wearing on their own or for layering. When figuring out what camisole is best for you, consider how you want to use it. Is it more intended to be worn under a sheer top or for nighttime with your go-to underwear? Each scenario requires a different type of cami.
- Lingerie Babydoll Dresses: An essential piece for every lingerie wardrobe, the babydoll is the go-to look any time of the year. Like slip dresses, babydoll dresses are comfy, wearable, and lightweight. However, many babydoll dresses can have a high price tag, so it’s essential to take proper care of them. Hang your dress on a padded hanger or fold it in tissue paper when storing it in a drawer to ensure your frock doesn’t wrinkle.
- Lingerie Sleep and Loungewear: Yes, sleepwear and loungewear such as pajamas and robes are also considered lingerie. However, the best ones for Valentine’s Day should have sophisticated flair, exceptional quality fabrics, and artisan craft skills.
What to Look for in Valentine’s Day Lingerie
When looking for lingerie, you should look for styles that feel and look luxurious and suit your needs; however, many other factors can contribute to finding the best Valentine’s Day lingerie for you — and your partner.
- Fit: As with any garment, you want to ensure the correct fit and size. If you opt for any bra, you should ensure it fits snugly and avoids gaping at the top since it will be uncomfortable and fussy. The straps should also be tight, and the band across the chest shouldn’t dig in or feel too loose. For babydolls, corsets, or any lingerie dress, cup-sized options with underwires are the best, so you get the fitted look at the top. Additionally, find bodysuits or teddies with adjustable straps for the best fit.
- Fabric: When shopping for Valentine’s Day lingerie you can wear any day of the year, look for soft, breathable fabrics and stretchy material. This is because no matter what lingerie style you buy, the material will sit next to your skin. Make sure you try several different options before swiping your credit card because the material should feel right for you and your climate. Many of the best lingerie brands use fabrics such as Tencel fibers, modal, satin, and soft lace since they allow the skin to breathe. Being overheated in uncomfortable lingerie won’t allow you to enjoy your special moments together, so focusing on lightweight fabrics will save you time and discomfort.
- Usage: Once you have the fit and fabric down, think carefully about what you will use the piece of lingerie for. For example, will it solely be used for the bedroom, be part of your evening wear paired with a sheer blouse and leather pants, or are you looking for something that suits your everyday lifestyle, such as a push-up bra? Again, it’s much better for the environment, your budget, and your closet if you think about your plans, lifestyle, and current wardrobe before finalizing your decision.
Meet the Authors
Lauren Alexis Fisher is an editor, writer, and consultant with over eight years of experience in the fashion industry. After spending six years as a digital market editor at Harper’s Bazaar and a lifetime scrolling the internet, she’s well-versed in shopping all the best trends and pieces online — from lingerie to loungewear and beyond. Fisher wrote the original version of this Valentine’s Day lingerie story.
Nikki Chwatt is the Style Commerce Editor for WWD and Footwear News, where she both writes and edits stories on the latest clothing, accessory, and shoe must-haves. As a city dweller, she’s garnered a love for dresses, especially cocktail dresses, because they can be worn for different occasions around the city. In her spare time, Chwatt keeps up with street style to understand which garments are highly coveted by the style set. Chwatt updated this Valentine’s Day Lingerie story with new tips and styles to wear on February 14th and beyond.
Meet the Expert
Cora Harrington is is an American writer and lingerie expert. She is also the founder and editor-in-chief of the The Lingerie Addict. In 2018 she released the book In Intimate Detail: How to Choose, Wear, and Love Lingerie.
