Would You Confront Your Wife If She Deleted Compromising Messages On Her Phone?

True Life Story: Would You Confront Your Wife If She Deleted Compromising Messages On Her Phone?

Hello Lively Stones,

Concerning the man who’s wife deleted messages on whatsapp from her boss, something is definitely going on with the boss but I will advise the man to be patient and if he truly loves her, he should think deep before he might see something that will take his peace away for a long time. This is why I am saying this: something similar happened to me and my wife few years ago. As a newly married young couple, I wanted to become a millionaire under a very short time and I was working so hard to get to a level in the company that will afford me that status.

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Back at home, I told my wife not to work, stay and take care of the children while I was travelling everywhere due to the requirements of my job. Me not being around created a strain in our marriage. My wife told me several times that she was lonely, missing me, but I was busy chasing money to become a millionaire under one or two years. My absence really almost destroyed our marriage and my wife felt abandoned her. We quarreled and many times, she demanded she wanted to go back to work cos she was lonely. Eventually,  I agreed.

Getting back to work, my wife threw herself at her job and maybe she was still feeling lonely, she had an emotional affair with her boss. It did not start as an affair…he seemed to be just advising her on how to manage her mental health. They chatted for a while and it began to transit to an affair that lasted for a year but she eventually ended it without me even suspecting. How did I know? After like a year of working there, my wife resigned and started a business of her own. A couple of months later, my wife’s phone got bad and she gave it out to be repaired. I used that opportunity to but her a new phone. I decided to take the old phone after repairs. The repairer told me that he could recover all lost files on the phones and that was how he restored even deleted messages from my wife’s phone.

That was when I stumbled on her chats of the emotional affair. I read all her chats and discovered that she was regretting the affair but felt like I had pushed her too far. This guy started like an understanding friend and she gradually became dependent on him. He also was showing her alot of attention and began to tell her that she was so attractive and he knows they cannot have intimacy because she is a good woman but he requested for her for nudes to gaze upon as a consolation. At first, she was reluctant but the guy sweet tongued her…calling her sexy names.

My wife sent him her semi-nude pics of herself until he began to request for parts of her body like her breast and vagina and a video of her. That was when she told him she is regretting everything she is doing with him, she told him she was going to delete everything and block him. Yes, she ended the affair and the next month, she resigned from the company.

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After reading those chats, I felt so upset and all kinds of thought came to my mind about my wife. I wanted to divorce her but after a careful thought, I realized I was the one at fault. I was chasing money and abandoned my wife. I have since changed jobs and my job affords me time with my family. My wife and I are happy but there are days I wish that I never read those deleted messages from my wife’s phone. It hurts me a little too much.

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There are also days where I wish to confront her about those messages. I feel like our trust for each other is very fragile…I do not want to destroy what we are trying to build again. Like I said, things have changed and we are happy…is there still any need to confront my wife about those deleted messages. From the chats, they did not discuss meeting for s3x but sometimes I wonder if they did. That is why I say to the other man, are you ready to see or know if your wife is doing what you suspect or do you prefer to repair your marriage and move forward?

If you were in my shoes, would you still confront your wife about this affair that was in the past of would you let it go since you are sure it has ended? What should I do?

Anonymous

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