The Enemy Within My Marriage Is My Husband’s Bestie-Pls Advice Me

True Life Story: The Enemy Within My Marriage Is My Husband’s Bestie-Pls Advice Me

I have always felt somehow about my husband’s brother’s wife right from the time we were dating. I met my husband five years ago. And he used to talk about his brother’s wife with so much affection. He told me how this woman helped him when he was in school and she is very fond of him as an inlaw.

My husband then my boyfriend even joked that if his sister (that is his brother’s wife) does not approve of me, that it will be hard for him to marry me. So, I took the woman as my husband’s best friend in their family. When we even have issues, its this woman that I go and tell. And she always supports him anytime she advices. I thought she was siding him cos she and him are family, so I started withdrawing from her.

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This woman played a big role in our wedding. She spent alot of money. Sprayed us alot of money too. Her husband did and the entire family did too. Well, since we have been married, they are still close. Sometimes, my husband goes to their house and does some business deals with his brother and his wife.

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Since we got married, we have been trying to get pregnant for almost three years. God eventually answered our prayers and I took in this year. I had some medical issues towards the end of my pregnancy, so I was on bedrest. My mom is late and my husband’s mom is very old so no one was around to help us as we got closer to the delivery date.

I had a CS birth and was in the hospital for 2 weeks. My husband’s best friend, his brother’s wife was showing all the care in the world and she promised to come and stay with us for like 3 weeks after the birth of the baby. I did not like her coming over cos she is so bossy, acting like she knows everything but I was not in any way strong to help myself so I agreed.

We got into the routine of our new baby and tried to adjust but the baby always making me have sleepless nights, sister said the baby can be sleeping with her sometimes so I can sleep. Again, I did not like the idea but hubby was like, he too will be checking on baby so I can rest at night.

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Most times, I will sleep after breast feeding the baby around 2am. If the baby wakes up before 5am, the sister or hubby will bottle feed the baby. A few weeks ago, I woke up at night and hubby was not beside me. I thought he was in the toilet, I checked he was not there.

So, my next thought was, maybe he is checking the baby in sister’s room. I waited for like 30mins, he was not back so I went to sister’s room. I tried to open the door and realised the door was locked. I was like, but sister does not lock her door before. I knocked gently cos it was late, no need to wake my baby but no one answered.

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Next thing I heard was faint sounds coming out like people making love. I swear to God, I thought my ears were playing tricks on me. I listened harder and this time I was sure, it was moans and sounds of people f*cking.

I started knocking harder on the door and immediately the sounds stop. I kept shouting, sister, its me open the door…this woman refused to open the door. I started shouting my husband’s name…he too refused to answer. I was like…what are you people doing o…open this door right now before I break down the door.

After like 4 mins, sister opened the door. And immediately started rebuking me, asking me why am I shouting, that do I want to wake the baby? I pushed aside, and went straight inside. My husband was pretending to be sleeping on the floor. I was like…are you people f*cking right?

Sister was like, hubby came to check on baby, they were gisting, he fell asleep and she did not want to wake him cos he was really tired. My God…do these people think I am a fool or I was just born today? I said…sister, come off it….you were f*cking my husband. Do you know this woman slapped me and said how dare you.

My husband, by this time, pretending to be waking up from our shouting, stupidly asked, whats going on here? I said….Marcus…you and your sister inlaw are f*cking and nothing both of you can say. My husband started pretending to be angry with me for saying that….saying am I insane for that.

I began to cry cos this woman slapped me….my husband called me insane…and these two were definitely f*cking. I took my baby to my room and started calling my brother for help. My husband took the phone from me and started telling me to calm  down. That its my hormones disturbing me. That he is sorry he fell asleep in sister’s room but I am imagining things.

My husband said he can understand why I think both of them were intimate because it looks that way but that sister is like a mother to him so I should never think that thought. I told him sister has to go next day and he said no need cos the week is almost over. Since that night, I have not spoken to sister. I never allowed her touch my baby anymore.

I am in so much emotional pain. Instead of hubby to even apologize like a man, he is saying I should apologize to his sister for accusing her wrongly. I refused and she said she knew I was a bad woman and that is why she never even approved of Marcus marrying me in the first place.   I told her to get out of my house and this woman said, its me that will leave before she does. That who do I think I am for even uttering that I should leave her brother’s house. That I am the stranger here cos she is family.

Now, I know she has a serious hold on my husband…and they are definitely lovers. Cos, my husband cannot ask her to leave…instead is trying to convince me that I am imagining things and accusing his sister in-law wrongly. That maybe because I just gave birth, that I am hallucinating.

I just want this woman out of my house. Yes, I did not see them in the act but I heard them well and the licked the door and my husband was not in bed for almost 40mins before I went to look for him and found him sleeping on the floor in sister’s room.

Now, I am afraid for my life. My husband refused to give me my phone cos he said he does not want me spreading lies about his sister in-law. He eventually gave me my phone yesterday and I quickly sent this email to you to help me post so that you an advice me on what to do. If I call my brother, he will find out and only God knows what they will do to me before my brother who lives in Zaria will arrive.

Should I text this woman’s husband to come and see what his wife is doing in our home? Do you think that will help? Will he believe his brother and his wife are lovers? I did not see them….but I heard them…am I being paranoid?

I am just maintaining my cool but I am afraid, in emotional pain…angry…I cannot even eat the food this woman prepares. Both of them are carrying on like nothing happened. I am even afraid to sleep at night. I now sleep very light. This woman is supposed to leave next week…that is too long to continue living like this…what should I do? Please advice me.

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