My Wife Is Too Desperate-I Think She Is Cheating On Me To Keep Her Job-Pt 3

True Life Story: My Wife Is Too Desperate-I Think She Is Cheating On Me To Keep Her Job-Pt 3

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My wife has finally quit her job. Ever since I posted our story, there has not been peace in our home. We were quarrelling everyday until we both stopped talking to each other. Yes, in the process, we both said some very hurtful words to each other. Maybe based off of some of the responses I read online about the story. Many people felt my wife was cheating with her boss and I was very scared of loosing my wife.

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I felt the heat in my house: she was working late as usual and all the horrible images of that sick man f#cking my wife refused to leave my head. At some point, I was ready to throw my wives things out of our house. I actually did throw her things out. Some of our family friends came around and tried to intervene. Some advised that my wife quit the job, some advised that we sue the boss for harassment. But shockingly, my wife refused all of those advice. She insisted on keeping her job. She insisted she was not sleeping with her boss too.

It continued to baffle me why she wanted to keep the job so badly. She eventually revealed that she actually took a loan from the company and she put it in fixed deposit, so that it can yield some money for us to add to our savings for the jakpa plans. My wife never told me she took a loan and because of that, she could not leave the company now if she wanted to. In anger, I asked her to offload the fixed deposit even it it means a loss and return the money immediately.

A few days later, my wife offloaded the investment and returned the money to the company. She also resigned same day. Now, I am in shock because, after she told me she has resigned, she looked me straight in the eye with so much pain and said, you betrayed me…. My wife is not speaking to me. She’s leaving the job at the end of the month cos she put in 2 weeks notice…..I thought that would bring peace to the home but its like someone put in an atmosphere of thick tension between us. She is not talking to me, she is not doing anything, not cooking, not sleeping with me, she sleeps in the living room now…she is so upset, I have never seen her like this before.

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I tried to make peace day before yesterday….during the public holiday, I thought she would stay home but she got up to leave for work in the morning. I tried to talk to her but she pushed me away. I grabbed her by the hand and insisted she let us talk things over but she screamed and asked me to leave her alone ….saying I have what I wanted now…hope I am happy. For the first time in weeks that I have been so angry, I realized that I have hurt my wife by forcing her to resign from the job.

That Monday, my wife did not come home. I was worried. I called her numbers but it was switched off. I called her family and friends. Everyone began to look for her frantically. The next day, she texted that she is fine and no one should look for her. I waited until 12pm and went to her office. I was told she was at work but in a meeting. I waited till they closed yesterday but she saw me and walked past me like she did not see me. I felt embarrassed.

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We both came back home separately. She got home before me and still ignored me. I noticed she was packing her stuff so I grabbed her knees and began to beg her. By this time, my wife said if someone ever told her that her husband was cheating because a woman sent him dirty s3x messages, that even if she caught me on top of the woman, that she would never insist that I quit my job or even return the money she borrowed from the company.

My wife said she needs to leave our house to think of what next to do with her life because she has lost her job and an opportunity. She feels there is no longer trust in the marriage. She is right…the trust is broken. After begging her endlessly yesterday, she still left. Yes, she has every right to be angry but right now, I feel like since my begging fell on deaf ears, she really has made up her mind….and only God knows where she has gone to spend the night. For a moment, I feared she may have even gone to that sick boss of hers…I really have to stop thinking about that man…or is this part of her plan to leave me for the man?

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I have not been myself since last night. Is this really the end of our marriage? Have we really reached the point of no return? My fear now is, what if I have pushed her too hard….and now….I do not know what she is thinking. Was I wrong for being a concerned husband? Is there any man that would like another man sext his wife without doing anything about it? Maybe I should have trusted her but she did not tell me important details like:

• why did she prefer to delete the boss messages instead of talking to me?
• why did she take a loan without telling me?
• why is she leaving the marriage after she has resigned?
• where is she going to?

I may have messed up but I am not perfect…I just want my wife back and I want everything to go back to normal again. I am sorry if I hurt my wife but right now…I am sorry if I acted in a harsh way but I cannot loose my wife. Please I need advise once more.

Anonymous

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