My Newly Wedded Wife Refused To Consummate Our Marriage

True Life Story: My Newly Wedded Wife Refused To Consummate Our Marriage

Hello Lively Stones,

This matter is heavy in my heart and my mouth. I do not know if this a prank or real…I am actually very scared it might be real. Since I got married to my beautiful wife a week ago, we have not been speaking or even had s3x. This may sound like what you see only in the movies but its true. My wife is seeking an annulment of our marriage.

Yes, she refused to have s3x with me, she wants an annulment. I got married last week to the woman I courted for almost two years. The wedding and everything was beautiful. After the wedding, we asked that all the gifts we were given at the wedding be sent to the house while the envelops which contain cash or cheque gifts be given to us as we went to the hotel.

My wife actually suggested we wait till the next day to open the envelops (I regret ever making such a stupid suggestion) but I was probably too excited to find out how much cash gifts people gave to us, I asked her to join me to open the envelops quickly so we can get down to action of our first night together as married couple. We went through the envelops very excitedly as we counted our cash gifts.

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Only my wife opened one envelop and it was not cash gift, its was a pregnancy test result and a note from my ex. The test report showed she was two months pregnant, and the note said: congratulations on your wedding and soon to be a father. Initially, I laughed at it cos I thought it was a prank but the look on my wife’s face showed she was not laughing.

My wife immediately became cold…she asked me if I have been seeing my ex…I told her no. But that was a lie. I actually saw my ex twice three months ago. It was during one of those times, I had a brief argument with my fiancée…I got so angry cos anytime we had a misunderstanding; she would ignore me for days…infact…I felt like I was always begging her after every argument.

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So in annoyance and under the influence of alcohol, I hooked up with my ex but made sure I used condom…so here I am looking so dump cos I cheated but I am afraid cos I am not sure why my ex sent such a wicked note and the test result. Of course, my wife refused to have s3x with me that night and since that night because she said until I prove that I did not see or sleep with my ex before we can consummate the marriage.

I got upset with my wife for being so naive to believe the test and the note but she insisted and said, to clear myself…I should call my ex….put her on speaker and ask her to retract the claim that was the one who got her pregnant. She said she had heard rumors of me messing around but she chose to ignore them cos she never could prove them. My wife reported me to the pastor and pastor too is insisting that I call my ex and verify this before any marriage consummation will take place.

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Secretly, I have called my ex….she said the pregnancy is mine, but I told her how come when I was wearing condom…. she is insisting its mine and is ready for DNA test to prove it. I am actually scared of how sure she is that I am the one…. did the condom slip or burst? That sounds like a dumb question I know but I do not know how else to save my marriage.

I am actually surprised that my wife and the pastor are demanding proof before I have s3x with my legally married wife…Is that not too extreme? They are taking this thing too far but I kind of feel this marriage is over before it started because my wife’s demand clearly shows we are already having trust issues. Yes, I messed up…maybe the pregnancy is mine…but how do we even have a marriage when there is no trust.

It’s been eight days after our wedding…no s3x …my wife is barely speaking to me….this thing is really hurting both of us…what do I do? How do we solve this matter without me revealing I hooked up with my ex 3 months ago…..

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