My Girl Got Deceived But I Still Feel The Betrayal & Hurt
True Life Story: My Girl Got Deceived But I Still Feel The Betrayal & Hurt
Hello Lively Stones,
Please I need your advise. I am a 27 year old young man, dating a 26 year old. Actually met her when she came to do her service here in my city. She’s pretty, intelligent and very easy to relate with. Initially, I wanted something casual with her but I fell hard for her. I was her first, I was shocked that she went through uni and was still a virgin. That was two years ago. We got so close that I helped her get a job here and she’s being my girl since then. My family has also met her and they love her too.
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My girl is an ideal wife material but her over friendliness is an issue. She is always trying to make everyone happy…so alot of people like her sha. So, there is this guy in her office that is supposed to be engaged, and he is from my girl’s village, so they bonded over that, he is my brother nonsense. When she introduced him to me, I never had any reason to suspect her…cos he was respectful and he was like a big brother to her in the office.
This guy and my babe always go to lunch everyday….sometimes when I call her during lunch, she will tell me he is with her….I asked why must she go to lunch with him everyday but she said I am reading too much into it. Then, when am with my babe…this guy will be chatting her and she will be engrossed, laughing at their chat. I told my babe, I did not like it…she said I was being childish…that the guy is engaged ….that he is just like a big brother.
This continued but so I will not be seen as the over controlling boyfriend…I left her alone. Only for her to call me months later, one da…when I got to her place…I saw that her eyes were red from crying. I asked her what happened….she started crying and trembling…I was scared…thinking maybe she was pregnant or someone died and she was afraid of telling me…I paced back and forth asking her what it is…she then started saying…please forgive me…forgive me…I made a huge mistake.
A huge mistake…what did you do? I kept asking her….by then, my apprehension was about to make me loose my mind…she said…she should have listened to me, that she made a huge mistake…that it started with an innocent chat about s3x and then it became curiosity and then, she became tempted…she and her colleague who is supposed be her brother where sexting and she slept with him.
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According to her…he kept teasing her and she initially did not think anything of it but she did not know when he started touching her when no one was looking and sending her s3xt messages and they ended up in his place where he slept with her. To me, I knew this was going to happen but I was being told I was being childish. My God…I just left her and told her its over. She cried and begged but I was done. I left that night and have never been so heart broken.
My God, that was two months ago. I have never been the same again. Shes still begging and asking for forgiveness. The guy and his wife to be, even sent me a long message begging me. I was surprised, the guy confessed to his woman. They are getting married next month…the woman said she believe they both made a mistake…how can she believe that? She must really like this guy for her to still want to marry him.
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Since we broke up, I have tried to move on but I can’t. Even my family members and hers are begging that whatever she did, I should forgive her, but they don’t know what really happened… but in my heart…how do I get over the fact that my girl slept with someone while we were dating…what if we get married tomorrow…what will happen?
The issue with this girl is…she is too trusting of people…she is too playful…she is not a loose girl but she can be very easily deceived. I know she was naive…for her to even tell me after what happened…some girls would have kept it a secret….I want to forgive her but the pain is still there…the hurt is much. And I am afraid that she could probably fall a victim next time…she is very sweet and kind and nice and those are her strengths but also her weaknesses…
Please advise me…do you think there could be any future with her? How do I stop feeling hurt and betrayed…should I just let her go?
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