I Caught My Wife To Be Still Talking To Her Ex

True Life Story: I Caught My Wife To Be Still Talking To Her Ex

Dear Lively Stones,

My girlfriend (Geena) and are planning to get married but I just discovered she is still talking to her ex. We dated off and on for a few years before I relocated to Bayelsa for my job transfer. During that time, our relationship suffered long distance challenges, even though I loved my girl, I could see that the job was making it difficult for us to communicate regularly. I work in a private oil company and the schedule is so tight as their Accountant. My girl complained alot that I was not picking my calls or calling her regularly.

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We had a tough argument and my girlfriend broke up with me. I was upset that she was not being patient but she too was upset that I was neglecting her. So breaking up seemed like we had no choice. Eventually, I heard she was dating someone and I could see from her socials that she was living large…who ever was the man in her life was clearly spending alot on her.

Anyways, we both moved on. I have not been in a serious relationship cos girls around here, that is story for another day. Its been a casual thing for me. Two years past, I got a promotion and was sent back to Lagos Head office. I did not contact my Geena (my ex) cos I knew she too had moved on. But as fate would have it, I ran into her at former mutual friend’s birthday party. I did not recognize her cos she was different. It turned out her ass was bigger than I remember…we said hello and we both didnt speak at the party.

However, a few days later, she chatted me…said she was glad we met and before you knew it… she was asking me if I was seeing anyone. I told her no…she then shows up at my place…we hooked up and truly, the attraction was still there. I asked and she told me she broke up with her fiancé….that the guy wanted to control her…bla bla bla…she then told me that the guy made her get a BBL…that is why her ass is so huge… I was like…that is crazy.

Much as I disliked BBL or girls who do it, Geena and I have been going steady and I told her I wanted us to get married, she agreed. We have chosen the first week of June for our marriage introduction. One of my sisters called me and asked why my girl got a BBL, I explained that it happened when we were apart. She then asked…how will we be maintaining it? I was like, maintaining it? That was when I learnt that anyone who does BBL have to follow up maintenance procedures.

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I never knew about this and my sister said its expensive too. So I asked my girl, how she pays for the BBL maintenance….she said she manages with her own money. I told her to think about removing the BBL…she said its too dangerous to remove but my sister said its better to remove it. Anyway, I never thought much about it. Its her body and she can do whatever pleases her…besides, I don’t judge women who want to look good. But the problem now is, I just found out that my girl is still seeing that guy that made her get a BBL.

This happened because the guy found out she was getting married and got upset that Geena was engaged and was still collecting money from him. So he sent her a message which I stumbled on. After reading the message…Geena did not deny it…she said she was still collecting money from the guy but they are not sleeping together. Why collect money from him then? She said because he was the one who made her get BBL and so she collects the money for her BBL maintenance.

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Truth, the guy stated in his message that Geena has refused to have s3x with him yet she collects money from him. So that confirms they are not together but she was collecting money cos of the BBL. To me, I was quite upset but I se her point…they guy made her do the BBL in the first place… My only anger is, if she continues to collect money, he will definitely want s3x with her…so I told her to stop collecting money and fund the BBL maintenance by herself or she can take out the BBL if she cannot maintain it.

The later on, I discovered by reading online that the BBL maintenance is not supposed to be until about 5 or 10 years depending on your body. So I asked Geena why she collected money for BBL maintenance when its not up to 5 years she did it. Geena then confessed that she did not know, she said she thought its after 3 years so she wanted the guy to pay for the BBL…Geena has asked for my forgiveness and said she was genuinely thinking it was 3 years. I felt very confused and betrayed.

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Please Geena is telling lies….I do not believe she does not know when the BBL maintenance is due…I feel she was still collecting money from this guy and this guy was hoping they get back together…the guy was really shocked that Geena was engaged….Too many lies. I feel Geena is still interested in the guy and his money and even though the guy’s message said that Geena has been dodging him, meaning they have not had s3x for but Geena asking him for money is making the guy have hope.

To me, Geena was deceiving the guy and eating his money while with me….I do not like such a behavior but her excuse was she was saving money for BBL maintenance…can you imagine? Cos of my anger, Geena has now agreed to remove the BBL, to prove that she will no longer be talking to her ex….I only wish she was honest…she should have cut off all ties with the guy…no matter the excuse…..she has apologized and I want to forgive Geena and move on but I do not want to be played for a fool…

In your opinion, can I still trust Geena?

 

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