How I Failed In My Marriage After Struggling With Fear And Temptation

July 25, 2023 Stan

True Life Story: How I Failed In My Marriage After Struggling With Fear And Temptation

Hello Lively Stones,

This story is about the fear and temptation that a guy like me is facing. I am married, and I love my wife but I deal constantly with temptation and the fear of not being the best husband that my wife deserves. An average good guy can always relate to this. From a man’s perspective, I want to share my story and open a discussion for debate and advice.

First, I want to say that I do not try to justify when a man cheats on his woman but the truth is that not all men have the power to resist the temptation that women bring before them. I swear, women will be death of men. Kudos to brothers who have been in this situation but many have been and they will understand my point of view.

Never been one to claim to be a saint but I have always tried to be a one-woman kind of man. But if I am being honest, I face temptation every single day of my adult life as a man. From the sexy ladies at work, on the way home, at church, at social events, supermarkets, and all. I try my best to remind myself what a lovely woman I am married to, I have to suppress the urge to cheat or hurt her. So far, I give myself kudos for keeping it together for almost 4 years of marriage.

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And then, my wife decided to bring her 23-year-old fresh graduate out-of-school sister to our house, to help with our young children since her youth service year is not happening until next year. When you see my wife, you know God spent quality time setting her up. She set behind and in front but when you see her younger sister, that one over set behind and in front. And she is a bad girl.

Since she came to our house, she has been tempting me, wearing skimpy outfits that show the very intimate parts of her body. Giving me inviting glances every now and then, I have been struggling. My wife is not seeing anything wrong when I told her that her sister is dressing inappropriately. She was like, I was reading too much into it…that her sister is a GEN Z and you cannot tell them how to dress and all that.

So, I left it before it will look like I have ulterior motives. Last Saturday, my wife went out very early in the morning with the children. I was supposed to go into the office that morning so I could not go with her. Before she left, she told me her sister was sleeping cos she was having mensural pain all through the night. So about 25 mins after my wife left, I got up to have my bath to prepare for work, after having my bath…came back into my room…to meet her 23-year-old sister on my bed…stark naked.

My reaction was instant but the girl was smiling like a seductress…before I could ask her what she was doing in my room, she explained by herself: she said she needs my help, that she is experiencing mensural cramp, its so painful and her boyfriend used to help her reduce the pain by fcking her…so she wants me to help her too. I told her I cannot do what she is asking cos I am not going to cheat on my wife with her younger sister plus her story about fcking to reduce mensural cramps is bull shit; I don’t do s3x with a woman on her period.

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This girl began to come towards me, trying to persuade me…saying dumb stuff as I won’t regret it and her sister will never find out….. I began to fight her off…saying I will not do it…I then noticed, she had locked my room door and hidden the key somewhere. So the more I tried to get her to go out, I could not cos the door was locked. I also tried to get my boxer on cos I was just on my towel but she kept on snatching the boxers from me. In the same process, the towel I had around me fell off…and then she asked if I can do anal s3x with her…told her I have never done that before and that I won’t do that with her…

This girl arched her ass up on me, pressed hard on me, and asked me to try it…the more I tried, the harder she pressed…then she said….stop acting like a small boy and this is your last chance. My reaction even shocked me…I accepted the challenge and bent her over and did her…it was not my first anal…I lied but it turned out to be my best anal. I ended up doing everything I said I was not going to do…In short, I did not go to work until 2 hours later cos this little girl got mad s3x skills.

Going to work later on, I was consumed with guilt but at the same time, I was smiling with such satisfaction. That weekend was hard for me…the girl kept trying to get my attention for more…I tried running from her…she began to send me nude videos of herself… Monday morning came, and I could not wait to run out of my house,…as much as I am completely disappointed in myself for this…I swear to God…all I can think of is, how do I fck this girl again…in her ass…in her pssy, and everywhere…

So this is why I am sharing my story…what exactly am I supposed to do about this? Tell my wife? How will she react? Should I ask her to send her sister away because she seduced me? I am imagining a million things that will go wrong once my wife finds out what I did with her sister….my wife is not even going to listen or reason anything…I know her….she will leave me,….she could kill me…she could take my kids away…she would never forgive me…I am scared sht but I am losing my strength to keep struggling. It’s easy to say just tell your wife the truth… it’s the hardest thing any man can do cos right now… it’s scaring the living daylights out of me.

The easier thing for me to do is to keep this secret but I know the more I keep this secret longer…I will keep fcking this girl…you see my dilemma? I wish I didn’t fck this girl but I did and I am fighting the urge to have her again as the other option of telling my wife wont work because it will only break up my marriage…and I am very scared of that….yes fear is why men like me can’t tell their wives things like this cos we don’t want to lose our homes cos we f*cked up.

There is a alot of temptation for men…we try our best but sometimes like this…we fall and we don’t know how to make things right anymore, so we keep falling deeper and deeper into lust and temptation…apart from telling my wife…what else can one do to get rid of this kind of temptation? I have been debating this all day…I don’t know what else to think…what is a man like me supposed to do? I had done everything in my power to resist temptation but here we are….what am I supposed to do?

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