Be Careful How You Help Others-How A Single Mother Took Advantage Of Me & My Husband

True Life Story: Be Careful How You Help Others-How A Single Mother Took Advantage Of Me & My Husband

Dear Lively Stones,

One of my husband’s tenants (a single mother) came to cry to me that my husband gave her quit notice. And being a single mother with 3 children, I have compassion for her, so I started begging hubby to please leave her, not to pay the new amount to rent one of our shops in our plaza. When I begged hubby, he vehemently refused, saying its business and not about sentiments. This woman cried and cried that she could not pay the new rent, I had to offer to borrow her 100k, to try to look for the rest to make up the new rent.

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After a couple of months, the woman told me she was able to raise the new rate and she has paid. She promised to pay me back my 100k, I told her to take her time. As God would have it, I met another tenant of ours, my town’s man, from the same Kwara state as myself…we were just gisting, when I asked him how business was going and how he managed to pay for the new rent increase…he was like, what rent increase? I was like…were you not given a rent increase like all tenants? He said no. This prompted me to ask the other tenants and they all said no too.

So, I went back to this single mother. I asked her why she was the only one who got a rent increase…she initially said she does not know…then I pressed her to tell me if she offended my husband in any way…she said I should go and ask my husband. Then I told her, to tell me the truth cos by this time, I had started becoming suspicious. I assured her that I will not tell my husband whatever she tells me.

That was when she said, that my husband has been pressuring her for s3x for months. And that because she is not a home wrecker…she refused. But when he increased rent by over 400%, she could not meet up. Even the money I loaned her was not enough. She had no choice but to yield to my husband. She said she slept with him and since then, she has not been herself but my husband has been pestering her …that twice a week…my husband will make sure they have s3x.

This woman cried when she was telling me all these…I did not even know what to say. I just told her I am sorry for everything….but I was so hot with anger that day…I waited for hubby to return, I carried bottle and went after him…we fought…so hard …for the first time in our 12 years of marriage…I was filled with so much anger that I wanted to injured him…hubby later overpowered me…and started begging me…said it was temptation.

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I made hubby realize that cheating is a deal breaker for me from when we were dating…its been over a month this issue happened and I am still angry with him…he said he will do anything to earn my forgiveness…but the pain of this betrayal is too much. I know how much I suffered with this man…met him when he had nothing…helped him build this business empire…now he is paying me back like this?

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Now, the tenant is calling me wicked cos I have issued her a 3 months quit notice. Yes, she slept with my husband…no matter what the pressure…she should have told me the truth…I gave her 100k…if she had told me my husband wanted to f#ck her….I would have straightened my husband from start. My husband does not play with me…I think this woman also seduced him….how do I know…when our lawyer went to tell her quit the shop….I was told that she has been saying that she will not go anywhere, that she has done something to my husband, that will make him never leave her. That I am the one that will leave my marriage for her.

Our lawyer is now telling me to be careful that this woman knows I am upset about the cheating and may want to push me to leaving my marriage. She said, if I leave, this woman will find a way to snatch my husband before I even leave. My husband has left the matter for me to decide…out of remorse of course….he is already embarrassed by the whole thing cos I have exposed the whole scandal…but that statement from that woman is bothering me….me, I am a hot tempered person….should I confront this woman for this statement?

People are advising me to wait till the 3 months expires…if she does not leave…then I take action? By action, I will sue her and also beat her….she started as the victim but now, she is beginning to annoy me …she is being coy and stupid….how do I handle this please? My lawyer said we have to be careful, so she does not claim sexual harassment or assault from me and my husband…if not for that…seriously…I would have beaten her till she will never set eyes on any married man again….so should I confront her or just wait?

As for my husband…since I cant leave him…how do I make him pay for his indiscretions to me? If I cant leave and cant do anything to punish him…my mind will not be calm…I might do something drastic…I need advise.

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