How Do I Break Up With My Girl, She Is In Love With Me But Have Feelings For Someone Else
True Life Story: How Do I Break Up With My Girl, She Is In Love With Me But Have Feelings For Someone Else
Good evening Lively Stones,
Please help me look into this matter. I am in a relationship with someone. It actually started two months ago. Everything is cool. She recently asked me to meet her siblings cos she is from a close family. I did not want to cos the relationship is still young, I feel like she is moving too fast but I do not want her not to trust me so, we all organized a dinner and went out. Shockingly, one of her siblings came with a friend of hers and guess what?
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This friend of hers is someone I met in the club in September and we had a one night stand. The problem is, that one night stand was a very memorable one. I find myself thinking about her after that night. For her to show up at a hangout with my girlfriend and her family is messing my state of mind right now.
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At the hangout, she pretended not to know me, I also played it cool. But before we left, I asked her for her no and she said, please lets not do anything stupid. Meaning she recognized me but she does not want to let her friends know. I eventually got her no from my girlfriend’s phone and chatted with her. She was excited, she said if I can go to that extent to get her no, then maybe I am serious.
Truth is, this babe is more exciting than my babe. I am really attracted to her. She is single and we have been chatting for three weeks now. I am totally blown away by her personality. I think I have seen my kind of woman. You know that kind of feeling of happiness that you have when you are talking to someone, that is how I feel….shebi they call it the feeling of butterflies ….that is how I feel chatting with this babe…we can chat into the midnight hours…I always look forward to her chats…I had to password my phone so my girl does not see our chats. The problem now is, how do we tell my girl cos I do not want to hurt her. I feel its unfair to her that I like someone else when we just started getting serious.
If I continue with her, I feel its cheating. Her family members know me now and I do not want to be seen as a bad guy but I feel the excitement since I reconnected with this babe has changed everything….my girl even sent me a message yesterday….saying she noticed I been withdrawn….asking if I am having issues at work…hmmm, its not work issues….its her matter o. …I feel somehow, like I am giving her false hopes…she took this thing too fast…I am not in love yet but she is in love with me…before someone will accuse me and say all men are scum, …what is the best way to resolve this please?
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