My Wife Built Our Marriage On Secrets & Deception That Will Haunt Me Forever

My Wife Built Our Marriage On Secrets & Deception That Will Haunt Me Forever

I am a 45 year old man living in pain and regret. I beg to be prayed for and given good counsel so I can find peace in my heart. Nine years ago, I met my wife through a friend. She was that type of religious woman, yes, a good Christian woman who showed piety in every thing: her looks, dressing and attitude.

Of course, its every man’s dream to marry a good woman. She fit the description of what I wanted. Being the first son of my mother, my mother and I share a special bond which I never knew was a problem for my wife. When we got married, my wife began to fall sick especially when she was pregnant in the early stages of our marriage.

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Things were also going down for me after we got married. I own a dealer business and I already was making good money when I got married. After wedding, dollar started falling so bad that my business was so affected. My wife being a religious person, went into long days of fasting and prayers.

Prophesy came that my mother was behind our troubles having a child and affecting our business. The prophesy warned that my mother was pretending to love me but that her hands were not clean. I cannot begin to tell you all the prophesies that came concerning my mother. So much that when my mother came to visit us, my wife had so many challenges.

My wife had to move out of the house at one point cos she said she cannot stay in the same place as my mother. My mother was upset and really displayed her anger at being labelled a witch or evil person. My mother eventually vowed never to return to my house. Strangely, things began to take a different turn and we had our children and business began to pick up gradually.

I tried on several occasions to make peace with my mother and my wife but my wife made it difficult. My mother was very bitter and a few years later very sick. I tried on my own to visit her and send money for her upkeep but my mother got worse and worse. In all of this, my wife was still not in speaking terms with my mother.

I listened to alot of wrong advice, to maintain my home…that my  mother has lived her own life so I should focus on my own wife and home. I have 3 children, none of them ever visited my mom cos my wife would not allow it. Early this year, my mother passed on. It was very painful for me. The entire family turned against me and warned me never to come for the burial. I pleaded through my uncles before I was allowed but my wife was warned to stay off.

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In August this year, the police got in touch with me, to expose one prophet that has been giving false prophesies to married women and they discovered my wife was one of the people who he was sleeping with and giving false prophesies.

I just became weak. My wife confessed cos she was invited to give statement at police station. She said she did not know the man was giving false prophesies but he convinced her that she would only get pregnant if he sleeps with her and that her mother inlaw should not be around the house cos her spirit will contaminate the prayers.

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The prophet himself confessed that he never deceived my wife and that my wife was the one who was jealous of my closeness with my mother and wanted prayers to drive away my mother from our home. I did a DNA test and 1 out of my 3 children is not mine. The first and last child is mine but the third child is not mine.

My wife and her family have been begging and asking for forgiveness. My family wants me to send my wife away. I love my 3 children, even the one that is not mine. What should I do? I will never forgive myself for allowing my wife push my mother away from me and how she died without seeing her grand children. I was completely blindsided and right now,I am at loss…

Is divorce the only way out? Please advise me….

Anonymous

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