Will My Boyfriend Leave Me For Another Girl, What Will Happen In Future?-Please Advise

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Will My Boyfriend Leave Me For Another Girl, What Will Happen In Future?-Please Advise

Dear Jzhane,

Good day,

Hope you are doing well. I am an ardent reader of your blog and it has been quite helpful to me I must say. Mine is not an issue but I need your advise. I’m in a relationship with a guy that I am 2 years older than…we have been friends from the University.

I met him through my best friend and roommate then in school, we were not really into each other cos then I was in a relationship, fast forward to this year we started talking and and things got serious we started dating last month.

One day we were talking and he asked me if I have ever lied to him since we started dating and I told him no cos I have not, I asked him same and he said yes that he has once, I asked him what it was and he said he will tell me when we see, I decided not to push till we see cos he said what it was wasn’t a big deal to him.

Two days ago, as we were discussing something brought the topic again and I asked him to tell me cos I wouldn’t want something that would ruin my mood when am with him, well he decided to tell me: He is two years younger than me.

It came as a shock, I had to end the call, when I called him back and asked him why he lied he said that he didn’t want me to have a change of heart or say no to him as he was already in love with me that to him it was not a big deal but that he couldn’t hold it anymore cos he knew if I found out myself it wouldn’t end well…

We had a long discussion and I told him my fears, I wouldn’t want to be with him and and the end he would chose someone younger, again I don’t know when he will be ready to settle down cos he is young though he is doing well, what will his parents say when they find out.

He assured me that he was totally in love with me and it will always be me like he said, his parents have no much say as he is the one dating me and getting married to me as and they wouldn’t even know cos I look younger, that I have nothing to worry about.

Jzhane,I am scared, I think about it and I don’t know if I should continue.He is everything I want in a man except age, he understands me and loves me just the way I want to be loved and I can’t even see myself breaking up with him cos am so much in love with him.

I am just feeling somehow and I decided to talk to you, am I making the right choice?? Sorry for the long post.I will waiting for your response

Thank you

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