Jide’s Ex-Wife Is Planning To Call Me Out Online-Pls Share My Story

True Life Story: Jide’s Ex-Wife Is Planning To Call Me Out Online-Pls Share My Story

Hello Lively Stones,

Last year, I met Jide, my current boyfriend through an online hair vendor. When I ordered, the hair was delivered to me a few days later. I was surprised when I came out to see the delivery guy was a fine looking guy in a fine looking car. I was shocked and asked why he is the delivery guy and he said he does uber as a side hustle just to make money on the side. I was really impressed so I took his no so I could call him anytime I needed a delivery service.

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Surprisingly, it was the guy who chatted me the next day and started toasting me. I was like, why are you so forward, it is because you are a handsome guy….he said some nice things and me, because I recently broke off from my boyfriend, I decided to respond cos I needed to get my mind off the heartbreak I just experienced. Like magnet, me and this guy got very intimate very fast.

The thing was, this guy is a badass in bed…I got carried away cos he was hitting it so right…it had happened like 3 times before I noticed something weird about the guy. The thing was, he was always coming to my place and I asked him why he has not invited me to his place, he said he is sharing apartment with some guys and he was not ready to show his flat mates his girl which is me.

I really started suspecting when I realized that his phone was always on flight mode when he is with me. He said he did not want distraction when he is with me. I thought that was being romantic but I realize he was hiding something which I later found out was that he is married and his wife is the hair vendor that I bought a wig from. Apparently, he does delivery for his wife and in that way, he meets and sleeps with other women.

When I found out, I broke off the affair with Jide (please use his first name only) and tried to forget about him. That has not stopped him from texting me every now and then, and he still wants me. Three month later, Jide called me for some financial help. He said his wife filed for a divorce after she discovered he was cheating and now, he is looking for an apartment for himself. Just about the same time, a vacant self contained became available in my area and I encouraged Jide to take the place.

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After he moved in there, our affair continued. This time, I felt he was going through a divorce and so its not making me the bad person. Initially, the relationship was just friends with benefits, just s3x but I grew to fall in love with him and things are getting serious with us. I know he is not a perfect man cos I know he cheats with other women but I am content with him. Last month, his divorce was finalized but his ex wife found out about me.

Maybe she did not expect her ex husband to move on so quickly and since she found out about him and me, she has been doing everything possible to reconcile with him. She has tried to seduce him back to her. Jide said he met her and felt empathy for her as a single mother but when they started seeing each other, she insisted on marriage before s3x and he wanted to reassure her that he wont be like her baby daddy so he agreed to marry her.

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After marriage, he realized he wanted more not just a wife but he wanted excitement but it felt trapped in the marriage, so he began to deliberately cheat so she would find out and end the marriage which she eventually did and filed for divorce. Now they are divorced and I am in love with Jide….he is not perfect but he makes me happy and satisfies me…I am willing to fight to stay in my man’s life….I don’t want to let him go…does that make me a bad person? Jide wants to live wild and she is too boring for him and too strict and he does not like that.

Please note, they don’t have children together…she has a child from a previous relationship but they don’t have their own together. So, its not like my presence is ruining anything. So this ex wife has tried to warn or threaten me to back off, calling me all sorts of names….but they are no longer married….I did not cause their break up in the first place…she left him cos he is a cheater…he is still a cheater and she is still boring…I guess she misses his D …as for me, the way I see it, we are all single…there is no loyalty to marriage anymore…does that make me a bad person?

Now, the ex wife is threatening to send my picture to the blogs to disgrace me but I decided to send my own side of the story before she does…I would have left him but I also love him and I deserve to be happy…many have broken my heart for so long…I am not a child…I know what I want and being with Jide makes me happy…I dont want him to marry me…I just want to be his woman. And he also does not want to marry for now at least.

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The man in question is her ex…she left him…he is not willing to come back to her, but he just wants casual s3x with her. Why is it hard for her to realize this man is no longer just for her? Why should I leave him for her? Please I need to know if I am wrong, if you people think am wrong, I will break up with him…but remember, this man is still single and he does not want to remarry her.

Please advise me. I am sure the ex wife will read this story on Lively Stones which is a major relationship blog when it goes online….if people feel I am wrong, I will leave Jide but I want to be judged fairly. I never went after her man when he was married to her….I only came into the picture when their divorce was over. Again, am I wrong?

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