Desperate Single Mother Offered Strange Five Year Contract With ‘Conditions’
True Life Story: Desperate Single Mother Offered Strange Five Year Contract With ‘Conditions’
Dear Lively Stones,
If you are a single mother with no support, how far can you go to feed your hungry child? Will you accept a strange offer that can tie you down for five whole years? Six years ago, I had to drop out of school as I got pregnant and had to do menial jobs to support myself until I had my baby. The baby daddy is not a responsible man. After a while, I left my baby with the dad’s mother and decided to come to Lagos to hustle.
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I did all kinds of job until I landed a sales job in digital marketing. From there, I got a job in a small company to do office assistant/cleaner. The money was small especially as I was sending money every month to my grandma for to take care of my daughter.
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Its was then I became so desperate, that I decided to do hook up. This gave me more money and I was able to finish my OND with the money I got from hook up. The company later employed me as Officer and they are paying me 100k which is so small from what I was making from hook up but I was determined to leave that lifestyle behind, so I managed the 100k. Not long after, I met a married man who wanted me to be his side chick on regular allowance. At least, its better than hook up.
With that, I was able to get myself a room self contain and brought my daughter to stay with me. The man and I are not lovers, just s3x partners and I am ok with that as long as he pays me well. This went on for almost a year until I met my current boyfriend who I told everything about my life and he asked me to stop that life so he can take care of me. Our relationship was going well until my boyfriend asked me if we can film ourselves doing it, I said no.
This caused a disagreement between us cos he felt I should accept it, after all, I have done hook up and being a side chick before. Eventually, I broke up with him. Now, am back looking for a job again cos I left my former job cos there were delaying salaries for several months. I have been looking for a job ever since. The way things are, its getting very difficult to feed and watching my daughter stay without food is really heartbreaking.
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I had no choice but to go back to the married man and begged to be his side chick again. He agreed but he said on one condition, that I will take an oath, that I will be his side chick for a contract period of 5 years. He will pay my rent, give me money and even pay my child’s school fees but it must be for 5 years before I can break free from the contract. I am trapped by this offer. Its very attractive but taking it means I will not be with any man for the next five years.
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I begged him for two years, he said no. This offer will be paying me almost 500k every month. No job can ever pay me that with my OND. Note, am the man’s only side chick. He is married to a woman who does not care, its like arranged marriage, so she does not care that her husband is cheating. He does not hide his side chicks from her. So, its not like I am a home wrecker but tying myself to this man for the next five years seems too much.
Its just that the offer is good and he is a generous man, he can decide to increase the money anytime. I am a hungry young single mother….is this offer ok, after all, its safe and secure. I only feel sad trading my freedom for the next five years. By that time, I will be around 29 years old. Please advise me. No insults, I am just trying to survive. And if anyone has a job for me, that can pay my rent and feed my child, I will abandon this offer.
Please post, maybe my destiny helper will see this and locate me. Life has been so unfair to me, I have been struggling since as a teenager. I am tired of struggling, I just want a better life. Because of my OND, its only jobs that pay not more than 100k I get offers and I have not even been getting offers. In this hard economy…. I have no handwork, I only know olosho work, its like a curse but maybe use this curse to pay my bills for the next five years?
Will it not be worth it?
Anonymous
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