I Am Not A Mama’s Boy But She Keeps Pushing Me Away

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I Am Not A Mama’s Boy But She Keeps Pushing Me Away – Pls Advise

Good evening,

Please I need a relationship advise. (Kindly pardon the errors) I recently met a single mom of two via SM based on job. We chatted and she wanted to relocate to Ibadan. I helped a bit to find a place but was not lucky. She finally got one on her own and we met and I helped in setting up the house.

Prior to her relocation, we’ve been having good conversation and she told me a lot about her past life and marriage. I was dumbfounded about what she has been through…but I always try to make relax around me, assuring her all will be well with me.

After relocation and we set up the house, I bonded well with her kids and she showed signs that she in love with me too. She also seemed comfortable with the fact that I am a young man still living with his parents. Sometimes, My mum would be calling profusely to know my whereabouts, and the second day I was there, I felt she didnt like my mom calling too much.

Immediately I suspected some withdrawal but I don’t count it. She later told me she wasn’t comfortable with me being around coz I am still a mummy’s boy with the way she was calling me time to time to know my whereabouts.

And I tried to make her understand that it’s been long I been in a relationship. My family think I am an introvert. I havent  gone out in 3 years  from morning till night, that is why it would look somehow to them. Moreover they knew I was with her. Days after days, we still in communication and she even wanted me to sleep over.

The following week, I went there for 3 days b4 we had issues about me complaining about food. Whereas, naturally, I am a selective type of person when it comes to food and I don’t eat fast nor eat much. She won’t understand after explaining. I had to apologize to let it go.

I got home and my phone had issue. She dropped missed calls as messages which I was unable to reply any. She blocked me b4 I could know it. I reach out to her on my other what’s app and called till I explain.

Everything was going fine but, the way we chatted has reduced drastically and  she gave space even though she said she shut down sometimes feeling not to talk to anyone. I wanted to give her attention but she is pushing me away always.

She later told me, how caring and loving I was but I complain alot ( all I complained about was food) and that I have some certain mentalities that revolves around my parent that she feels she wants to change and maybe something can still happen. She raised my hope a bit.

She knew I just broke up though and I was already having feelings but she came.

I had a dream 2 days ago about her. Coz I stalk her alot, I know when she is online and would not want to disturb her to chat and she won’t chat me up either. I will go to her twitter and read her tweets and replies to people’s tweet. I discovered I was getting jealous and insecure.

I sent her that message in the night. She replied that she can’t date me coz of my family.

She barely knows them. I know my parents. What I want is what they give to me. They don’t force is to do things. They go with our ways but give advice. I already told my momma about her. She objected initially but I made her see that I loved her. She said okay and gave advise to be careful so that I won’t regret.

But, I love her. She won’t just want to give me a chance. It’s burning me seriously whenever I can’t chat or communicate with her. I am really into her. I can’t even go to her place anymore, coz we barely talk. I won’t just want to go and sit down all day.

I just want to be part of her life, protect, provide and care for her and the kids.

What do you advise me to do? Of I want her to go, I am finding bit difficult to let her go just like that. I have been emotionally attached to her.

She removed my number from her saved contact. Everything just went sour in a blink of an eye. Please help me.

What do I do?. How can I win her love or should I let her go.

Thanks for your time

Anonymous Lively Stones Instagram Fan

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