How I Left My Husband In Anger That Is Almost Destroying My Life

January 9, 2024 Stan

True Life Story: How I Left My Husband In Anger That Is Almost Destroying My Life

Hello Lively Stones,

I am in a sticky situation. I beg for forgiveness and understanding from my husband because I was angry and frustrated, and ended up getting myself into something very bad. Its like, I have been under jazz for the last few days, my eyes just finally realized what is wrong. So, my name is Rosa (not real name). I got pregnant for my boyfriend three years ago. I refused to abort because that would have been my third abortion. After much pressure, we got married five months later but things were not easy.

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My husband is contract staff in a factory. They dont pay them very well. On top of that, he told me that he does not want his wife to work, that a wife’s job is to take care of the children and her husband. That made things very difficult cos his salary is very little. Barely enough to take care of us before month end. I begged him after I had our daughter to allow me do petty trading, to assist in the family. I did that for about six month but he stopped me because he said the business is making men come after me.

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Any male customer I had was a problem. My husband suspects me alot. I think he is being insecure because he knows hes not doing well financially. Many times, we go hungry and that makes me really sad. Towards the end of last year, I told him that I can no longer live in this situation like this anymore. I told him I wanted to travel to my parents and when I return, I want to be allowed to work or I will quit the marriage. My husband refused and said I will not travel, that if I travel, I should not bother to come back.

Against his will, I travelled on the 22nd of December. I left my daughter with his elder sister. Throughout my travel, hubby did not call me and when I called him, he refused to answer my call. My family called him and he refused to answer too. So, that made me believe he was serious about me not returning back to the marriage cos I left without his permission. On December 26th, I was feeling so sad about everything that I was crying all through. I also refused to go out all day.

One of our distant family friend came visiting. He came from Abuja. A very wealthy business man. Before he left, he was asking about me and when he saw how sad I was, he told me to come see him the next day to discuss what the issue is. I thought maybe he wanted to give me money if I explain my situation to him. I need money to start a small business. He was like, come , lets discuss tomorrow. The time he gave me to come see him was around 10am. I got there exactly 10am. There were alot of people in his family house. We could not talk so he said we should go somewhere quiet.

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I was surprised when he asked me to follow him into his car and he drove to a hotel. Well, the hotel actually belongs to him. He says that is where he discusses business. So we went to the hotel, he ordered drinks in the hotel lounge and asked me to drink anything I want. I drank a bottle of stout. He asked them to get me asun, fish and more drinks. He was also very busy…going around his business. So, I was there eating for almost an hour. Later he sent a waiter to ask me to see him in his office. I was thinking he was ready to talk business now.

So I was directed to his office. He asked me what business I have in mind. I explained to him that I just need like N200k to start any small business. He said no problem but what will I do for him in return since I dont have any collateral for the loan he will give me. Well, I did not know it was going to be a loan, I thought it was a gift so I told him, not to worry, that I promise to work hard and pay him within one year. He said he cant do business like that. That he must get something in return.

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Then I told him I have nothing to give …but he got up and said, but you can suck my d#ck. I was like what? He was like, stop behaving like a child, let me just touch you small and that is all, I promise not to go further than just touch. Why I was stupid enough to believe him is why I think I was jazzed. I said ok. He came over, brought out his penis and asked me to suck on it. I did as he asked…after a few minutes, I got up and said its ok…I cant go more than this. He became angry. He said after I have aroused him, that I want to leave him hanging?

The anger in him scared me….he grabbed me and began to hold me down. This man practically r3ped me in his office couch. I was so afraid he was going to even k#ll me. When he was done, he rang a bell on his office table and one man came in….this man locked the door behind him and brought out his manhood too…it dawned on me he was coming for me. This guy ignored all my pleas and rough handled me like a pig. He did all kinds of dirty s3xual acts on me. And this family friend of ours filmed everything his ma did to me.

After he was done, the man threw some naira notes on me and told me to leave. He threatened to end my worthless life if I say anything to anyone. That he is helping me from my worthless husband who cannot take care of me. I could barely stand so the man that assaulted me, helped me on my feet and took me to the back of the hotel. He apologized for assaulting me, saying he was just following orders. I managed to get a hold of myself and all I did was walk to the middle of the nearest express road cos I wanted a vehicle to run me down and k#ll me. I thought my life was over.

It was in the middle of the road that people saw me and rushed me off. They called my family and they came to get me. I could not tell anyone what happened. They all thought I wanted to k#ill myself cos my husband is not talking to me. So, they called my husband and he spoke to me on the phone. He began to beg me not to take my life. He said so many nice things and said I should come home and that he loves me.

I am still crying as I write this. My husband does not have money but he has love for me. I let my patience run out and see how I landed myself in trouble. I confided in my Aunty, the only one that I feel really close to, what the family friend did to me but she advised me not to say anything if I want my husband back. That man is wealthy and he can say I was the one who came to beg him money with s3x. Afterall, I agreed to suck his d#ck first before he r#ped me. So, I got myself treated and two days later, I went back home. My husband welcomed me back. He felt so sorry that he thought he almost pushed me to commit s#icide.